Tuesday, 26 October 2010

Agony Aunt?


If you're anything like me, sometimes you just want to get stuff off your chest, to someone who won't judge you and will just listen & help in any way they can.
I have always loved helping other people with their problems, be it big or small. I was the one people would come to for a chat, for help or for a shoulder to cry on. My mums best friend is a doctor of psychology and she says that i should be in that field of work, as much as i'd love to, i'm definitely not clever enough. Writing essays was never my forte. However, I have the gift of listening & truely caring about how other people feel and doing the best i can to help in anyway i can. I've always been this way. My mum says i'm too empathetic for my own good.

So i guess the purpose of this post, is just to say that if any of you ever wanted to have a rant, have a moan, get some advice, anything..please feel free to email me. I have had people emailing me with problems before, and i've always wanted to help in some way. I'm no expert, i know that, but even if i just manage a smile out of you, or just listen, then that's something. Making other people happy, makes me happy. Obviously I'm not here to judge anyone, and i definitely won't. Anything you ever email me will be completely confidential & even if i don't know much about the subject in which you want to talk about, i will always try. I cant say i'm extremely wise when it comes to things like relationships, friendships, money, lifestyle etc etc but hey, im here if you wanna chat!

My email is in the sidebar to the left should you ever want to use it :)


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EDIT: I receive an enourmous amount of emails, and since this post, have had an overwhelming response. I will try my hardest to get back to you when I can, if I can. Thanks Lovelies.

55 comments:

  1. That is very kind of you, Zoe :)

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  2. Aww zoe that is so sweet of you!! was reading some of your old posts the other day and came across ur post on the s factor haircare range, thinking of ordering some after reading your post, sounds exacly what Im after xx

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  3. You are an amazingly lovely person! I love you! x

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  4. Aaaw I did Psychology. I'm too empathetic for my own good too. I don't just get upset about my own problems but my friends' problems as well! Such a lovely post gorgeous xx

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  5. that is SO nice of you, if only more people felt like you this world would be a better place x

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  6. So lovely =) I'm the same, but like your mum said too empathetic for our own good....I end up crying at silly stuff on tv.
    xx

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  7. Thats a lovely idea ... your such a lovely person huni!

    xxx

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  8. This is such a lovely and extremely selfless idea. You might be getting bombarded with emails soon haha x
    HeatherRetro

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  9. Aww that is so sweet. There should be more people like you in this world :)

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  10. That's really sweet. Maybe you should look into doing a counseling course? Sounds like you'd be good at it!

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  11. Aww that's so lovely, I will most certainly keep this in mind. You know where I am if you ever need this in return xx

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  12. you are sooo sweet :) beautiful inside and out xx

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  13. you are so kind and thoughtful to all of your readers. such a beutiful soul. xxx

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  14. aww Zoe, you're so kind. that is really sweet, you're the loveliest blogger girl in the world!

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  15. That's so kind. I just want to say that your blog is my favourite and i get excited everytime you blog :)

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  16. really sweet, thoughtful post. Bless your little cottons, I have no doubt that people will be using your shoulder and borrowing your ear soon!

    Don't forget to let off steam in the same way to people you trust whenever you need to too though.

    xx

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  17. That's really sweet of you :)

    Have you ever heard of postsecret?
    It started off as a community art project in the US and now it's taken off all over the world.

    People mail in home made postcards with their troubles and worries, some funny, some sad. Some get shown on the website each week.
    It's a lovely website and I have all the published books too.
    It's great to read other people's secrets and thoughts

    Laura x

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  18. such an adorable post!! You are truely a sweetheart! xxx

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  19. I just want to say THANK YOU for posting that quote. And also ask if it's okay to use it in an upcoming post of mine? It's the perfect quote that will go perfectly with how I'm going to write my blog.

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  20. Aww Zoe, you're too lovely :) Such a breath of fresh air to have a blogger who genuinely cares & wants to help other people out! x

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  21. Aww,that's so sweet. Nicest post I've read in weeks! Thank you Zoe :-) x

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  22. ..But I DID send you an email. You never got back to me :( Made me sad.

    Begüm

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  23. aw your such a lovely person, never let anyone tell you otherwise :) x

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  24. you are seriously such a sweet person! gorgeous inside and out! hope you're having a lovely day!! xx

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  25. @Begooo - I have SO many emails in my inbox, it does take me a while to go through them all. I will reply to everyone but it might not be straight away. A lot of emails get filtered into my junk too.x

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  26. such a sweet idea :) bless you x


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  27. Thats such a nice idea, you're so kind! :) x x

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  28. that is so nice of you :)

    Love your blog xx

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  29. you're so lovely zoe<3, almost like a big sister!xxx

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  30. those evelopes are too cute!! :)


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  31. your amazing and really beautiful

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  32. wish i had a friend like you lol (: so nice of you to put in such time and care for others ^^

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  33. your blog is realy fantastic ; ) ;*
    i like it !!


    if you want, follow me and write comment ; * <3

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  34. This is so sweet, I may take you up on it one day!!! xx

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  35. You're an absolute sweetheart, I hope you know this!

    xoxo

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  36. What a sweet offer, Zoe! I'll keep that in mind... :)
    Btw, I can totally see why people would want to confide in you. You seem charming, lovely and kind.

    And I know you must get this a lot of the times, but you're so gorgeous! The kind of gorgeous that doesn't make you feel bad about yourself, but the kind that makes you happy. That must sound weird, but I hope my point comes through lol. :)

    Best wishes from Hungary! :)

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  38. Not clever enough? How? I'm a trainee psychotherapist and most of my training is practical based. Of course there's a written element to it but it's certainly not all down to who can write the best essay. Don't count yourself out of something just because you doubt yourself. If it's not what you'd want to do, ok. But don't judge your abilities because you think you're not clever enough.

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  39. That is really so sweet of you Zoe! You have a very kind heart! Its nice to know that there are people like you out there

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  40. Wow! this is one of the BEST posts I have ever come across!!

    XOXO

    http://estilomode.blogspot.com/

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  41. Aww zoe this is such a nice post, I have just started my own blog so I thought id read back threw yours to see some older posts and this is my favourite. I love all of your youtube videos and whenever I need cheering up or to take my mind of things I always watch them. my favourite has to be the 1 million subscriber video, I actually did smile all the way threw it you are such a happy fun person its infectious. I would love if you looked at my blog too! xxxxxxx

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  42. Does anyone actually know the email because I can't find it :) xxx

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