Easy Breezy Linen Pieces to Stay Cool, Calm and Collected In This Summer
Linen in any form is simply summer personified, conjuring up images of heatwave bbqs, shirts thrown on after a dip in the sea, baggy shorts to cycle into the sunset in and cute flippy dresses to sip on a sweet glass of Aperol.
Hello easy breezy wardrobe season- we’re so pleased to see you! Hot girl summer is in full force and it doesn’t have to mean body con dresses and heels that cut off blood supply to your toes, oh no, embodying hotness is about comfort, confidence and companionship with your besties and you best believe a cute linen ‘fit will have you well on your way to achieving this.
Linen in any form is simply summer personified, conjuring up images of heatwave bbqs, shirts thrown on after a dip in the sea, baggy shorts to cycle into the sunset in and cute flippy dresses to sip on a sweet glass of Aperol. It evokes Call Me By Your Name summer vibes in a garment, and whilst we might not be jet setting to Northern Italy, we can sure as hell dress like it. Watch out Mr Chalamet.
If you’re easily hot under the collar (all of us after mentioning Timothée) then breathable linen is the fabric for you, letting your skin breathe and leaving you looking and feeling effortlessly cool in the summer sun. Honestly, what’s not to love?!
Between You and Me: Your Problems Answered Part 18
Trained therapists we are not but what we lack in PhDs, we make up for with our honest hunks of friendly but fair advice. We’re all fallible humans just trying to muddle through life as best we can!
From struggles with home life after uni to dealing with a break that turned into a break-up, we’re back with our monthly serving of life advice… because sometimes you just need to ask someone impartial on the internet what they would do in your situation.
Trained therapists we are not but what we lack in PhDs, we make up for with our honest hunks of friendly but fair advice. We’re all fallible humans just trying to muddle through life as best we can. Mistakes are inevitable, breakups suck and anxiety happens but when you have a system of support around you and the space to talk it out, positive change and personal growth doesn’t seem like such an impossible thing to wrap your head around, after all.
Consider this your window to rant – we’re all ears!
Holly
Hello lovely human,
I’m so sorry to hear you’re struggling, I completely get how you feel. I met my best friends in the world at uni and you bet it’s a shock from seeing each other every day to only a few times a year. They all live at least 2 hours away from me.
I know how daunting it is to find new friends and you might feel like you’re being annoying but trust me that is not the case! After almost 18 months of not leaving the house, everyone is craving new relationships and meeting like-minded people. I’ve had people reach out to me online that I’ve not spoken to in 10 years and now it’s like those 10 years never happened. Try and put yourself out there, if you have a genuine connection with someone it doesn’t tend to go away.
Try and make a conscious effort to go out more. If you’re ever invited to go out with work friends, family or even just random meetups, do it! You might not make a connection with someone the first time but keep at it and you’ll get there. Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone is so good for confidence too!
Most areas now have Facebook groups for likeminded people, I’m part of a Brighton based one and there is probably a post about once a week of someone saying they don’t have many close friends, writing a little bit about themselves and then people comment if they want to meet up. It’s great, I know so many people who have moved and used this as a way to make friends. I hear that bumble BFF is great for making friends too. And a bit less scary because you know the other people on there are looking for exactly the same thing.
I think also talk to your current best friends about how you feel. It might be that you can make effort to see each other more often. Even if it’s not all of you together. It might sound dramatic but I’d also consider moving to be closer to one or two of them if you’re really struggling!
Good luck and know that everything works out in the end.
Danielle
Hey Anon, thanks so much for sharing your story with us, I know EXACTLY how you feel. I would be one of the friends that moved away from the group, first to London then to Brighton and because I arrange to see my family and home friends or London friends so often I was pretty complacent when it came t making friends in my area.
I’m busy every weekend I want to be, but I completely agree with you that I really miss that feeling of spontaneous nights in or popping to the cinema on a whim with friends as everything I do has to be organised. I’m probably not the best person to give advice on this as I have not succeeded in doing what your asking, but I have done a lot of research into it in case I’m ever feeling brave enough!
Now that we’re coming out of COVID imagine it as a re-birth to making friends and try and put yourself out there, which is much harder than it sounds! For me most of my friendships have come from work so maybe try to get something social together outside of work with your colleagues, you do see them every day which means you can grow a really strong friendship quite quickly.
We wrote a really great article for navigating friendships as an adult that I think you’ll find super helpful, I also remember reading a little piece from Charlotte Jacklin that helped me feel less alone, simply by understanding that there are so many people who feel similar to you! Good luck love, I’m sure you’ll be sending that Saturday night takeaway text before you know it! x
Charlotte
Hey anon! I wish I had better news for you but even reading the subject line of your dilemma made my heart sink a bit having been the girlfriend in a situation like this, so although my immediate reaction is maybe a bit more emotional than most, I do think fundamentally anyone would agree it’s not okay.
The dynamic you’ve found yourself in is entirely his fault, let’s get that straight first. He should never have engaged in that kind of conversation with you as someone in a relationship, and I think the fact he has crossed that boundary at all is very telling of his character. Is that the kind of person you could really trust or rely on? Also the fact you were talking to him for a while and he managed to conceal this from you is really concerning in my opinion! Not good vibes.
You’ve definitely done the right thing in taking a step back, and if you both really do like each other it will have to wait until he is ballsy enough to end his relationship because he cannot eat his cake and have it too sadly! My advice would be forget about the guy, find someone available and with no baggage and enjoy spending time with someone knowing there’s none of this background noise going on.
If you’re meant to be together then I think the universe will draw you back into each others lives when he’s ready. Good luck!
Darcey
Hey anon! If I’m honest, I really don’t think you should talk to him about it. I think for something so little, that you think he might like you too, just isn’t enough of a reason to potentially create all this drama and upset. It sounds as well to me that he’s a bit of a flirt, potentially with other people too, as it’s super weird to have been speaking to him for so long and to have had no idea about his partner?! Aka, he didn’t want you to know, but is that a good sign? Not particularly as it shows a lack of respect for his partner from him. I think this kind of behaviour can really show someone’s true colours, it’s all very sneaky and when something has to be kept secret, it’s usually because you know you are doing something wrong.
I do totally emphasize with you as liking someone who you can’t be with really sucks, but at the end of the day they have a partner and that person’s feelings have to be considered as well. I truly think the best option is to take a step back from this guy and have some space. There are so many people out there who would be happy to give you all of them, not just a tiny slice! I just think this relationship isn’t particularly fulfilling for you and I’m not sure it ever will be as it sounds like they don’t have any plans to break-up with their partner anytime soon. The only person that will end up getting hurt in the long run is you, and we would like to avoid that please! If you are truly meant to be together, you’ll find each other at the right time, but I think for the time being, this isn’t the right time. It’s going to hurt not speaking to them, but I do think it will be for the best, but you know your gut and you have to trust your own instincts sometimes too! All the best Xx
Lareese
Hello my love,
First of all, huge congrats on getting through the first year of uni in these crazy times. I can’t imagine how disruptive trying to study during these last 18 months must have been! Bloody well done to you for getting through it. It sounds like everyone’s struggling in their own way in your household and that can’t be easy to be around. You’re right to address it. It’s far too easy to sink into a negative mindset very quickly when you’re around that tense energy 24/7, that said, I think there are definitely ways to support the others whilst being mindful to respect your own boundaries and keep something back for you.
Could you suggest doing something fun as a group to lift the mood and shake up this routine of waking up and feeling crappy? If they’re struggling with depression, they might not have that get up and go energy or motivation to plan a day out together but it could be nice to have a change of scenery and have a bit of bonding time, even if it’s a simple day at the beach or a picnic with games. Test the waters and see what they say but equally, don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be the mood-lifter or the life and soul all the time because that in itself can be an exhausting role. Do your bit to be there for them as all friends should (as much as your emotional capacity will allow) and if nothing changes, don’t feel guilty for removing yourself from the situation, going on walks, doing the things that make YOU feel good and respecting your boundaries. Also, talk it out – I know, eye roll, it’s such a basic thing to say but as is this case with Between You & Me, I feel like the majority of people aren’t necessarily looking for answers to their problems, they just need someone’s space and time so they feel heard and understood. I hope you try to find some pockets of joy this summer whilst you’re home. Look after yourself xxx
Charlotte
Hey, anon! Congratulations on finishing your first year at uni- what an achievement! I hope you find some comfort in knowing that the way in which you were able to adjust to going to uni in September for the first time is very much the same as adjusting to coming back, and so although it feels difficult, I know you have it in you to do it. It can be really challenging to support those around you with mental health problems without it impacting you too, so I’d say prioritising your free time and making sure you can get out of the house when you can is essential for you. You mentioned that aside from your boyfriend you can feel quite lonely so I think making some new friends in your hometown would be just the ticket. Bumble BFF is great for this, and most towns have local Facebook groups for women in that area and I often see people posting in the Brighton equivalent looking to meet up with like-minded people for a walk or some drinks so it’s absolutely worth putting yourself out there if you can. I think having some balance in the time you spend with family and time dedicated to freeing up a bit of your headspace is key.
I know you’re a student so I imagine you’re on a low budget but I wonder if looking into therapy is an option? As I mentioned it can be really taxing to take on the emotions of others, no matter how much we love them, and having a bit of mental health support for yourself would go such a long way in my opinion! If not then I find journaling to be a really useful outlet for my emotions and it’s a free and easy way to vent those and feel some release. Take a pen and paper, set a timer for 20 minutes (or however long those feelings keep coming for) and write an unfiltered account of everything that’s troubling you- even the stuff you wouldn’t say out loud to anyone else. You can rip it up or scribble it out at the end and it might just help to give some space to any difficult feelings.
Remember that your experience at home is so valid and being able to vocalise what you need is okay and necessary and a priority. Sending lots of love and light.
Holly
Ahh, the old break to break up dilemma. Let’s start by saying although you probably feel very isolated at the moment, this happens to sooo many people and you aren’t alone in how you feel.
There is genuinely no pain like a break-up and the break is awful, you just sit there for however long, feeling helpless and hoping your other half makes the right decision. I’m all for breaks to get your head straight but when it’s not a mutual decision, it’s hard to get your head around. The fact that he took time to really think through your relationship shows that he respects you and definitely still cares for you so please find some peace with that.
At the moment your emotions are so raw, you can’t be expected to know exactly what to do or how to act. What you’ve done so far is amazing, it’s so hard to distance yourself from someone you love but deleting his contact details was 100% the right thing to do. That isn’t to say you’ll probably try and get in touch in a moment of desperation (we’re all human) but for now, you’ve done the right thing.
Surround yourself with good people, your friends are family are vital right now and just let yourself be sad. 6 years is such a long time and it will take you a while to get over that. Eat loads of chocolate, watch sad films but also try and make yourself happy too. Put on some powerful music and get a drastic haircut. Al the cliche things really do help.
So often people get complacent in their relationships and when someone new and exciting comes along, they think it’s what they want. I give it a few months before he realises it is likely just a fling and comes running back. By which time, you’ll be a strong, independent person who can make an informed decision on who you want to be with, and I’d put money on it not being him.
Sending you a big cuddle, it gets better I promise.
Holly xx
Danielle
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with a breakup, heartbreak really is the worst kind of pain and there’s barely anything that can cure it other than time which as we all know can’t be put on fast forward. It sounds like he had checked out of the relationship when he started having feelings for this person he worked with, which adds another layer of heartbreak as you’re probably feeling rejected which is always a terrible feeling.
I’d start your journey to happiness without him ASAP and kick things off by blocking him on every platform as well as his number, not to be petty but seeing him come up on your timeline and stalking him while you’re drunk is not a good move, you’ll end up going 10 steps back. You probably have a ton of people telling you this but it really sounds like you dodged a bullet, and this break-up will be the making of you. The next thing is to just feel what you’re feeling, if you want to spend Saturday night watching romcoms crying then do it, but try and lean on your friends for support. Try and get some exciting things in the diary with your mates to look forward to, and start journaling your thoughts and feelings, things that make you sad and things that make you happy about the situation.
Finally, I just want to say relationships that start when you’re 17 truly have the smallest chance of making it long term, one of you will 100% end up changing and the fact it’s happened now is probably a massive blessing. Think of your life ending when your 100, and all the amazing things you want to achieve and do in between now and then, this guy will be a blip in your timeline and when your walking down the aisle and having children you’ll think back to how you thought it would be with this guy and actually laugh I guarantee you.
Lareese
Hello lovely,
Thanks so much for writing to us and being bold enough to open up about it, that’s a huge step in the right direction. I feel like you need to hear this: you’re braver than you know! Look how you just opened up about your mental health, just like that… all those baby steps mean you are making progress and you should absolutely acknowledge how far you’ve come already. It’s incredibly easy for someone who isn’t struggling with mental health conditions to say seek help and talk about it, and by sharing what you have with us today, you’ve actually made me all the more aware that even getting to the point where you feel comfortable to trust someone professional with your feelings is a milestone in itself. Even if that first hurdle felt terrifying and anxiety-inducing, you did it.
I would hazard a guess that what you went through on the phone call is incredibly ‘normal’, especially as you were not expecting it, which ultimately left you feeling panicked and unprepared to discuss your mental health, hence why you wanted to shut it down and block the number to avoid the situation happening again. Anyone would feel the same. This is all new to you and phone calls are awful at the best of times haha, let alone when a stranger is putting you on the spot about the tough stuff you want to work through. Owning the way you’re feeling and making that decision for yourself to get therapy takes guts and self-worth, and I think on this occasion, it was just really unfortunate that the way the conversation came about wasn’t conducive to sharing intimate details about yourself – it didn’t provide the calm and safe environment you need to have that dialogue in the first place.
Reaching out to this organization to begin your therapy journey says to me that you’re ready for it, but I think this sudden phone call has just thrown you a tad and chipped away at your confidence. Maybe email the organisation and explain that you’d like to continue with next steps in your own time and in a way that allows you to ready yourself to open up. Explain that the initial phone call was triggering for you given that you weren’t expecting it, but if you can get a set time and date to discuss things further, you’d like to try again (if you’re comfortable with that of course).
It’s not going to be an easy or instant process but at least if you know when to expect those phone calls, you can prepare yourself adequately and get into the mindset that allows you to think right, I’m ready to talk now and prepared to answer the questions they may need to ask to help me.
I have everything crossed for you and your future, it sounds like you’re on the brink of making some really positive changes for yourself. Please keep us posted with how you get on as we’d all love to hear from you in a few month’s time because you absolutely WILL do this. Go surprise yourself! Loads of love xx
Darcey
Hey anon! I’m so sorry you are having a difficult time with your mental health, but even thinking about going to therapy is a step in the right direction, so you should be super proud of yourself! This a really great question and I think more people feel this way when looking to start therapy than you might think. Starting therapy can feel so daunting and to be honest it actually can feel pretty scary at first. I started therapy in September last year, after similarly like you considering it for about a year. Something quite big in my life happened that pushed me to seek help and if I’m honest I was pretty scared to start looking because it’s admitting you are having problems and knowing you are going to have to speak about them.
Therapy is hard and it takes a lot of facing yourself and learning to open up, especially with a complete stranger! So, I’m not surprised you left that call feeling panicked, if I’m honest I think them calling you at random doesn’t seem all that professional either. Whenever I’ve spoken with a therapist, we organise a time together to meet and discuss my needs, this way it feels like you are more in control. I can tell from your question that you are serious about wanting to start therapy and you are so brave! So, I think put yourself back out there and contact some therapists yourself, have a big goggle sesh looking at local therapists and find some who 1) specialise in what you are wanting help in and 2) have a face that to you seems friendly and like someone you could potentially talk to and lastly 3) check they have the correct qualifications! I think having more control over the situation will make you feel more safe and secure. You’ve 100% got this and I can promise you that you won’t regret starting therapy, just got to make that final push! Wishing you all the best in the future Xx
Swirling into this week's team picks are sensory overload items from our faves at Jaded London, Boohoo, Nasty Gal and more, offering budget to boujie options to jump on this trend in time for the heatwave- let's go ladies!
No you’re not stuck on the funky funhouse after one too many beers at the fairground, you’re simply looking at summer 2021’s hottest trend: swirl print. This psychedelic 80s dream is everything a maximalist dresser could need and more in the wardrobe department, and high street brands and indie small businesses alike have jumped on the trend quicker than Shannon was a contestant on Love Island (too soon?).
Swirling into this week’s team picks are sensory overload items from our faves at Jaded London, Boohoo, Nasty Gal and more, offering budget to boujie options to jump on this trend in time for the heatwave- let’s go ladies!
Charlotte
I’m SO into this trend it’s unreal! Jaded London is a brand I’ve only come across recently but am well and truly head over heels for and this romper is an adorable representation of some of the funky prints and designs they have going on in their summer collection. A piece like this really does all the talking, and so as much as I like a clashing print I’ve kept it relatively simple with the accessories and just tied in some bold colours to finish off this heatwave appropriate look.
I’m loving trousers this summer, I think they’re a bit cooler than dresses or skirts so I’ve gone for these swirl flares from Nasty Gal, they’re quite 70s and fun, they’d be great at a festival. I’ve carried the swirl theme through to the rest of the outfit with this cute cream cami from Weekday, wavy gold hoops, and sweet Fendi bag I absolutely cannot afford.
I love this trend so much I think it’s super fun and summery! I really like this swirl print shirt dress from ASOS, especially because it’s neon green. Paired with some white trainers and this beautiful hot pink Jacquemus bag, proper Summer vibes, add some gold jewellery and you are good to go!
Confession: I have no idea what I’m doing when it comes to styling swirl print. Admittedly, it’s not something I’d usually wear but I can appreciate the power of the print, nonetheless and I am ALL here for the 70s vibe. I’m dipping my toe into the trend with a ruched satin top, straight leg jeans, sneakers and sunnies.
I am all for the swirls, I feel like I’m living my whole 90’s dream when I am on the swirl hype. I’d wear this top for a sunny BBQ day paired with some black shorts. Perfect to dress it up with some chunky necklaces and nice boots.
We caught up with Lizzy, the author of the Zoella Book Club July pick 'The Summer Job'!
First off, how are you and how is your 2021 going?
Better than 2020. I really struggled last year with the pandemic, and I don’t know if I’m just used to it now, or what, but things are really picking up mentally for me. I’ve been working on my next book which is due in a few weeks (!)
We’re super excited to be The Summer Job for the Zoella Book Club, can you tell us what the process was like for writing your first adult novel?
I have no process. I am a sit and stare at an empty page with a vague idea kind of person, and then the story starts to come and I just go with the flow. It’s not a process I would recommend though because it’s extremely stressful! I often finish a draft and realise the entire premise has shifted, or the main character is a totally different kind of person and I have to go back and redo the start. I am untrained and it shows!
How did the jump go from writing YA to Adult fiction?
I struggled to find my place as a YA writer, and always knew that one day I would take the leap. For me, it felt natural and more free to write adult fiction, but some of my favourite books and authors write YA.
We adore the characters portrayed in The Summer Job, who did you find easiest to write?
I wrote so much of myself into Birdy. I wanted to pay a kind of homage to myself as a lost twenty-something (and yes, lost thirty-something too). I wanted to write a character who actively took decisions that would hurt people – but was a decent and good person regardless. I have a lot of regrets about decisions I’ve made, people I’ve hurt and in a way, this was my way of forgiving my younger self.
Having spent your early twenties in hospitality in Scotland did writing The Summer Job bring back fond memories of your time there?
Oh, my time in Scotland was just a dream. I had so much fun and learned so many life skills working in hospitality. It might seem strange if you’ve grown up eating in restaurants and with wine at your table, but I hadn’t. Hospitality gave me those basic skills and that knowledge that really forms a part of who I am today. I also spent a lot of days walking with my Aunt’s dog Teal, a gorgeous, sprightly black and white cocker spaniel, drank whisky, went fishing out on Loch Ness and fly fishing on the rivers. I love it. It’s part of who I am now.
Why do you think so many secretly dream of packing up and moving somewhere quiet and peaceful like Scotland?
Life is too fast and we cram too much into a day. I think lots of people want to move away from the responsibilities, the social pressures, the noise. Far from the madding crowd. I love where I live in rural Austria, but the isolation has its downsides. I miss people – terribly. The pandemic has meant my social trips to visit friends have come to an end. Although our three chickens provide some slapstick humour, they’re not great to share a bottle of wine with.
What are you currently working on?
I’m working on An Unfortunate Date, my new novel about a girl called Mara (31, Capricorn), a pregnant fortune teller, a hot European cellist, and a stargazing builder called Mike. It’s, hopefully, a story about love, destiny and our need to believe in something.
What have some of your top reads this year been?
The Push by Audrey Audain, You and Me on Vacation by Emily Henry, The Split by Laura Kay, Uncoupling by Lorraine Brown and Where the Rhythm Takes You (YA) by Sara Dass. All these books are out now!
Did you have to read wine tasting for Dummies like Birdy, or do you have some experience in sommelier life?
I learned a little working in restaurants, but no, not really. I had to do an awful lot of research on wine for that book!
What does your perfect weekend look like?
Saturday morning brunch, followed by a stroll around a farmers’ market. A pint at a pub mid-afternoon and maybe a dinner out somewhere in the evening. Sunday is the day for papers and coffee and catching up with family on skype. If it’s hot, a swim somewhere with my girls Billie and Georgia, and the afternoon lazily picnicking in a park.
I’ve just realised I have described the perfect weekend in London. I MISS LONDON.
What do you always carry with you?
My notebook, a very specific type of pen. Lip gloss.
What would your last ever meal be?
Anything by Ottolenghi. Literally anything. He could put mud into a shoe and hand it to me and I’d eat it.
What is one positive piece of advice you could give to our audience?
Give yourself a break. Nobody ever said ‘I wish I’d spent more time on social media’ on their deathbeds. Not yet, anyway.
24 Beautiful, Budget Friendly Wedding Dresses to Say ‘I Do’ In This Year
Whether you're newly engaged and are living in your bubble of lurve or have had your big day pushed back so many times you gave up on finding the dress, it turns out the good ol' British high-street has well and truly got you covered in finding the perfect number for your once in a lifetime day.
We don’t mean to alarm anyone but weddings are a THING again and saying ‘I do’ to your boo just became a reality once more after 18 months of uncertainty and cancelled plans- we love, love! Whether you’re newly engaged and are living in your bubble of lurve or have had your big day pushed back so many times you gave up on finding the dress, it turns out the good ol’ British high-street has well and truly got you covered in finding the perfect number for your once in a lifetime day.
Money Saving Expert estimates the average wedding can cost anywhere from £18,000 to £32,000, making the rise in high-street brands stocking beautiful and both contemporary and classic wedding dresses all the more appealing. Brands including ASOS, Whistles, Monsoon and Next are killing the game with their dreamy selections starting from as little as £90, as well as slightly pricier destinations such as Reformation and Olivia Rubin offering gorgeous gowns for considerably less than the average price.
Silky, chiffon, short, long, jumpsuit or mini dress, the high-street gems available to help you wow on your big day mean you’re spoilt for choice in the white (/ivory/cream/baby pink) dress of your DREAMS. Which one do you have your eye on?
As a nation, it's time to manifest some serious warmth, and when that time comes we need to be prepped and ready to hit the Lidos, parks, garden sun loungers and British beaches in a swimsuit or bikini that leaves us feeling 10/10.
The buzz of an airport and stomach flipping motion as your plane jets off towards warmer climates might still be an unfamiliar feeling for many of us this summer, but it doesn’t stop us getting our hopes up every time we feebly check BBC weather in the hopes of some well-needed sunshine. Football’s coming home, Love Island is back on our screens and all we need now is a heatwave to complete a proper, British summertime celebration.
As a nation, it’s time to manifest some serious warmth, and when that time comes we need to be prepped and ready to hit the Lidos, parks, garden sun loungers and British beaches with our best-pedicured foot forward and in a swimsuit or bikini that leaves us feeling 10/10. Whatever your swimwear concerns (because God knows it can be a nightmare to shop for) the team have compiled their current add-to-basket worthy picks to see you through the rest of the summer season, and ensure we all get a fire Instagram photo as soon as the temperature hits anything above 22 degrees. Hey, we’re in the Euros final, anything can happen in 2021!
Zoe
Being pregnant, I’ve found the offering of maternity swimwear a bit dire, but have found that the “crinkle” style is my favourite to wear! They mostly come in one size which means the stretch they have to offer is SO good and still comfortable. I also like that you can different styles of crinkle costume too, so you still feel somewhat stylish with your beach ball tum and enlarged boobies out the front!
I do a lot of sea swimming in the summer months so swimwear leaks will not be wasted on me in 2021. I’ve had my fair share of camel toe slips and see-through disasters, so at this point I’d rather invest in a few trusty pieces that will make this water baby’s ocean dips a plain sailing, blush-free experience. Sezane have got some beautiful cozzies in at the moment (I’ve full on coupled up with this floral number) and Monki have got some great separates you can mix ‘n’ match with different bikinis. Always a win when you’re in rush to get to the beach. Just grab whatever’s at the surface of your underwear drawer and go!
When it comes to swimwear I’m usually much more adventurous with colour than I am with the rest of my wardrobe. I’ve gone for a couple of options, this lilac bikini in that material I can’t quite describe as well as a costume in a similar palette with a cool straight neck line. I’ll alway pair swimwear with an oversized lightweight shirt, it’s such a good holiday vibe and great when I want to get my skin out the sofa. Love these lilac sunnies and some sandals that go with everything to finish the look!
We might not be jet setting anywhere exotic this year but Brighton beach is where it’s AT in my opinion no matter the travel restrictions. The weather has been somewhat lacklustre this summer so far I have to say but I love a little dip in the sea even when it’s not scorching outside so having a few good swimwear options I can rely on is essential. Swimwear is definitely something I’ve scrimped on in the past but the older I’ve got the more I’ve realised the importance of investing in certain items and I really do think swimwear is one of those things- no one wants a saggy bottom or see through boob! I see Frankies Bikinis a lot on Instagram and I think they’ve absolutely nailed Gen Z/trend driven but classic bikinis- if I was going on Love Island this is where I’d shop.
I love getting new swimwear as it feels like I’ve come so far in body confidence when wearing it! I used to hate buying swimwear when I was in my teens and I always felt so insecure wearing bikinis, but now I love parading around in little bikinis because who actually cares! Everyone is too busy having fun to even focus on what you are wearing on the beach/round the pool. I found this really cute pink bikini from AsYou, who isn’t loving pink at the moment?! I also love a crinkle style, so this blue set from Weekday and this swimsuit from 4th & Reckless were perfect finds.
I’ve struggled to find any swimwear pieces I really like this year. I like bright colours and bold patterns but most plus size swimwear is really boring and bland. My go to style is a bikini with high waisted bottoms and a very supportive top otherwise my boobs scrape the floor and they get in the way when I diving to the bottom of the pool doing handstands. I’ve got a few here that I would wear but to be honest, if there was more of a selection I’d still go for bolder, brighter.
Whilst England's place in the Euros remains to be seen, at the very least we know it's coming home for tv and film this year.
The football’s on, we’ve coupled up with Love Island again and cinema is back, ah sweet normality, it’s good to see you again. Whilst England’s place in the Euros remains to be seen, at the very least we know it’s coming home for tv and film.
From The Handmaid’s Tale Season 4, the police dramas we only just got round to watching nearly a decade later (mother of god) and this summer’s cinematic must-sees, here’s a recap of the latest tv shows and movies we’ve been watching on the big screen and the medium screen, as a reward for how shit the tiny screen makes us feel.
Nothing strips down your entire existence quite so ruthlessly as a family of glowing rectangles, does it? Here’s what we’ve been cancelling all social plans to watch lately.
Larrese’s Picks
Line of Duty
Mother of god, I’m embarrassingly late to the police drama party but when season 6 was trending a few months back, I thought I may as well see what all the fuss is about once and for all, so I got fully acquainted with the AC12 gang. I don’t know what kept me all these years. I’d seen snippets and some spoilers on Goggle Box (mainly the Trump cameo) so I knew the main premise of the series but not enough for it to ruin the show for me. The cast are brilliant together – Hastings, Kate and Arnott have my heart. I recently discovered Martin Compston is Scottish which blew my mind and made me fancy him even more. His London accent is ridiculously good. PS I’ll never misspell definitely ever again.
Peter Rabbit 2: The Runaway
No YOU went to the cinema the day it opened on your own to watch a children’s film. I don’t think I appreciated how much I loved going to the cinema before the pandemic. It’s the only way to get me to sit and actually watch a film. If I’m at home, I’m on my phone replying to emails or mindlessly scrolling, so the cinema is the perfect place to force me to sit still, switch off from the small screen and treat myself to the pure uninterrupted joy of the big screen. Admittedly, there wasn’t a great deal of choice so I was forced to watch Peter Rabbit 2, really (cough, liar, cough), and I loved it, not quite as much as the first one – that was a bit more cottagecore fluff, this one was a little more action bunny, but wholesome viewing nonetheless.
Anne With An E
The perfect tv comfort food for a rainy day. The Netflix original is an adaptation inspired by the Anne of Green Gables book series by L.M. Montgomery. It’s a coming-of-age story about a young fearless Canadian orphan trying to find her place in the world. She’s mistakingly sent to live with siblings Marilla and Matthew Cuthbert, where she transforms the lives of everyone she meets with her exuberance and wild imagination. Actress Amybeth McNulty is perfectly cast as the spirited anti-heroine, Anne Shirley. Her talent alone makes the series impossible not to binge, as does the stunning backdrop of Prince Edward Island. I feel a trip to Canada coming on… when we’re allowed.
Mare of Easttown
Adding this in as a tv series I’m currently trying to get into but can’t promise I’ll finish… does it get better, guys?! I’ve heard great things about it and Kate Winslet is in it so it’s gotta be worth a watch, surely? But the first episode just didn’t rock my world. Something’s not quite reeling me in so, I’ll probably finish watching it on my deathbed along with all the other iconic films and tv shows I’ve missed. RIP Grey’s Anatomy.
The Bold Type
Forever wishing I’m a Sutton, completely gutted that I’m a Tiny Jane through and through. I loved everything about this show. Even Pinstripe. Fancied him in a major way – I don’t make the rules. The alchemy between the three characters, Kat, Sutton and Jane is what saves this show from veering into the glossy, media gal rom-com archetype. Yes, it’s wildly unrealistic – Jane writes one article a week, always takes a lunch break and reports directly to her Editor in chief who cancels Beyonce to be a shoulder for Tiny Jane and is a treadmill marching angel – but the love story shared between these three gal pals is what kept my subscription to Scarlet magazine going strong.
Danielle’s Picks
The Handmaids Tale – Season 4
Even though I’m only 3 episodes into the latest season I had to put this series in my choices as I’ve been gagging for it to come out for months! I always used to think the premise of this show sounded too depressing and macabre but as soon as I gave it a go I was hooked. The women portrayed in this show whether you love them or hate them are f***ing epic, every performance is so ridiculously good. The new season is a refreshing step change from the previous 3 (I don’t want to give away any spoilers) but it feels like it could go in any direction right now and it’s SO exciting.
Loki
I’m always a sucker for a Marvel series, especially as it’s something I can enjoy with my partner Harry. We watched WandaVision and loved it, they’re like watching a 6-hour movie dedicated to one character. Anything Marvel produces is usually packed full of humour, twists & turns, easter eggs, and great storylines and Loki is no different. The series takes place after Loki steals the tesseract in End Game and he’s brought to the TVA (Time Variance Authority) after an alternate version of Loki created a new timeline. Owen Wilson stars in the new series and he’s as lovable as ever. Definitely recommend giving it a go if you’re into the ol’ MCU.
RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars 6
It’s back, back, back, back, back again! Obviously, I’ve smashed the series 13, the UK series 2 and Down Under already this year but you best believe but All-Stars has my heart. I love seeing queens come back and show how much they’ve improved, with elevated looks and vibes. The challenges are top tier, and I love the format of the queens voting each other off. If you’ve never watched RuPaul’s Drag Race what the hell are you doing with your life? This series I’m rooting for Raja O’hara, I love everything she’s shown so far and I’m glad she’s getting that redemption after being too caught up in the competitiveness of her season.
Bo Burnham: Inside
Wow, what a masterpiece. Bo Burnham creates genius musical comedy specials and has done for years but this one hits different. Bo wrote, directed, filmed, and edited the whole thing from a tiny apartment over the year we all has to stay inside. it touches on his mental health over the course of the year, as well as his feelings doing stand up before the pandemic, the dangers of how addictive digital is for all of us especially young adults, and of course Jeff Bezos and his mighty wealth. This special really holds a mirror up to society and points out so many ugly truths we’re just not talking enough about, but it also pokes light-hearted fun at topics like sexting and ‘white women’s Instagram’ accounts (yes I felt very attacked). Urge you to give this one a watch!
Charlotte’s Picks
Cruella
This was my first cinema trip since Christmas when I managed to squeeze a visit in between lockdowns and boy oh boy was I excited. I managed to see Cruella just before it left cinemas and I so wish I had been sooner because it was one of those films I could easily have gone and watched again the next day. I love both Emma Stone and Emma Thompson (special mentions to The Amazing Spiderman and Love Actually) at the best of times so seeing them be the boss ass b*tches they are on screen together was such a joy. The plot was imaginative, surprising and sprinkled with plenty of humour, wit and simply everything I hoped for and more. I always love admiring the costume department of any film I watch and the emphasis on fashion in Cruella wasn’t something I was really anticipating but really blew me away. As a fashion graduate I loved the rivalry between Cruella and the Baroness who gave me total Miranda Priestly of The Devil Wears Prada vibes. 10/10 recommend and will be watching again soon on Disney+!
Love Island
You either love it or you love to hate it but I for one am overjoyed to have this trashy, addictiveness back on my screen! I think I was in the minority of loving winter Love Island so I had my fix more recently than those who skipped out that season, but I am still thrilled that it is FINALLY back. It really needs no introductions but I am already living for the memes, TikToks and group chats popping off every episode- the country is united and it’s all thanks to terrible flirting and cringe chat ups lines on ITV2- who would have thought it?!
Too Hot To Handle
I’ve got love on the brain and also live in a house of 4 girls so of course Netflix hit THTH has been on our TV at every given opportunity. I don’t know how I feel about this show, despite how much I’d heard about it, and mostly find the combination of Americans and Brits mixing (amongst other nationalities too) extremely jarring for some reason, ha. I also just find the whole concept so odd- like, if some of these people genuinely can’t go even one day without kissing or sleeping together then surely that’s a major problem?? It feels so bizarre to me, and I know a lot of it is probably put on for the cameras but seriously I would be so annoyed as a contestant who could easily stick to the rules when money is involved to have others throw it away for the sake of some heavy petting in a bedroom surrounded by strangers. Get a grip people!
Darcey’s Picks
Believe Me: The Abduction of Lisa McVey
(TW sexual assault) If you like a true-crime documentary, this is really one to sink your teeth in. Based on true events, it relives the kidnapping of Lisa McVey who narrowly escapes her kidnapper. However, and this is the big twist in the story, no one initially believed her. They said she must have been making it up because her story was too detailed (wtf?). I find films and series based on true events fascinating, and I massively admired the bravery of such a young girl who had been kidnapped and sexually assaulted. It’s an uncomfortable watch at times, but you are glued to the screen as she slowly convinces the people around her that this happened and fights to get who did it bought to justice. There’s a big twist too, which again is mind-blowing to think this is true and if she hadn’t persevered to get him caught he would have stayed on the streets hurting more and more women. Would absolutely recommend to any fellow true-crime lovers.
Sweet Tooth
I loved this series so much! Sometimes felt a bit close to home as it centres around a virus that made everyone sick (we are all potentially over this narrative now ha, although it is based of a comic from 2009), however this series is all about the ‘hybrid’ children that were born from this, who are half human and half animal. This series follows Gus who is a hybrid with a deer, so he has very cute antlers but also possesses abilities deers have like night vision etc! I don’t want to give too much away but I really enjoyed this series, I felt so many emotions while watching this and was really rooting for little Gus and his quest. It’s an easy watch and perfect for a Sunday snuggled in bed!
The Pact
SO BLOODY GOOD! Honestly I had kind of given up on BBC series after they have discontinued some of my favourite (Doctor Foster you will forever be in my heart). Also, 6 episodes a series? BBC we want MORE. Although actually, I feel this series was perfectly summed up in 6 episodes, but I think we could off stretched it to 8, just saying. This series follows a group of women who one night leave a co-worker in a forrest as a practical joke, I know even from that you know it’s going terribly wrong. Let’s just say they end up with an unexplained death and the women are now in a pact to vow to stick together in order to not go down for it. Would highly recommend and if you are anything like me you’ll be finished in a day.
Workin’ Moms
This pains me to say it, it really does, but I didn’t love this last series. I have been waiting for the new series for what feels like forever, but it kinda flopped? I am so sad to say this but I’ve been watching it for years and always so excited when the new episodes are released, but I just didn’t like the plot of the last series! Without giving too much away for people who haven’t yet watched it, but I think it’s because the moms aren’t all together, with Anne living in a new city. Also, Jenny is hardly in this series and just has some strange storyline running alongside the others, where she’s in some weird relationship with her boss? It just didn’t add up to me, Hopefully, the next series hits better!
Abi decided to start her small business for gender-neutral baby clothing after spending her career in kidswear buying and noticing how much of the clothing was quite gender-stereotypical when it came to colours and designs.
First off, how are you and how is your 2021 going?
Great question, thank you for asking. I have found 2021 really eye opening, from a personal perspective I think I have done a lot of reflecting on 2020 and the injection of serious growth we saw as a business and that I had to handle on one pair of shoulders. I stepped up but felt quite burnt out, so I feel like this year has been a lot about my personal growth and practising some self-mastery, as much as the business growth. The business has had some brilliant moments this year but the last two months have been tougher, we were hit hard with the impact of COVID in India for our production, and sales naturally took a little wobble when retail and life has opened up slightly. All in all it’s been quite the year so far, I thought 2020 was wild … but 2021, wow!
Can you tell us about your journey to start Claude & Co?
Claude & Co (named after my first cat) was a combination of my foundations in fashion buying, feeling Children’s products really resonated with me and my style and that you could have fun with it, and they’re tiny…who doesn’t love tiny things. I love women’s clothing but it’s too personal for me. I think having no children (as yet) helped me a lot…though it does seem to shock most people! A lot of Children’s brands are started by mums noticing a gap or giving it a go on mat leave, and it’s become the norm.
I noticed a gap in the market for a really well-rounded Unisex clothing brand.
During my career, and endless design presentations I noticed a gap in the market for a really well-rounded Unisex clothing brand, that was sophisticated and cool, appealed to parents, at an achievable price point. Really key though was having those small brand ethics that big corporate companies are rarely held accountable for. Fabric sourcing, Organic materials, sustainable packaging but with that wow feeling when your order arrives. A lot to ask of myself but I felt it was worth it!
I started slow, and had other toy and interior brands on the website. Selling those whilst working on my brand behind the scenes, I knocked on a lot of doors and previous contacts from my buyer life until someone listened. I knew what I wanted I just needed help to make it. I still work with the factory now and they make the most incredible clothing. I am so proud of the quality and level of Claude & Co. Now we’re five years in, and the brand has grown and the awareness too, we’re stocked in most countries around the world – all pretty much from my front room. We have a warehouse based in the U.K (as we used to pack and send everything from home eek) and the collection has grown steadily to where we are now and with I believe a strong future ahead.
We know you previously worked in buying, what steps did you take in your education/early career to achieve that role?
I started my career in fashion buying very young, I was really thrown in at the deep end. During my first year at uni, I took it upon myself to get some work experience in a buying office. I was offered a job after around a month of clearing the rails, sorting folders and asking the right questions. I left university that same day and gave it my all. For me, four more years made no sense when I had these big plans.
I was pretty determined from around 14 years old that I wanted to be a fashion buyer. I loved art (I still do, painting is my solace) I loved creating and I knew fashion was something that got me excited. I had a career day at school and they gave me some guidance on the idea of being an architect or a fashion buyer, which I had no idea even existed but sounded better than an architect because well…too mathematical. So that was me. Fashion Buyer in the making.
I worked my butt off and climbed that ladder fast in my career– I ended up as a buyer on Childrenswear for NEXT and I whilst I felt very “successful” having become a buyer and travelled the world turning left on the plane at 25 years old, doing what I felt was seen as a “dream job” I just was not satisfied. I was pretty sucked up in the corporate world and I think I burnt out pretty fast. I just could not relate to the people and attitudes around me and felt I was destined for something else. I had thankfully built myself a strong base to take time out, keep my home and invest some savings into giving something a go that I’d had the idea of for a while. So there we go, I leapt…with a lot of blind faith and a LOT to learn but with some good experience under my belt.
We love your gender-neutral clothing, why do you think it’s so hard to find on the market?
I have no idea; I think especially for baby clothing…there is so much gender stereotyping and it’s such a shame. When I am designing, I never consider the gender of a child it doesn’t enter my head. I just think whoever they are, will look so great in this and it can appeal to anyone. I try and keep to neutral earthy colours and interesting fabrics, focusing on something a bit more sophisticated.
I try and keep to neutral earthy colours and interesting fabrics, focusing on something a bit more sophisticated.
I really think it’s just ‘how things have been’ which I like to think Claude & Co will be at the forefront of a natural edge towards being different. I lived in Amsterdam not long ago, and I think there was a welcome and different approach there which I’ve absorbed. The clothing for Children centred around a lot more independent brands and less high street retail which was far more open to unisex and ethical fashion. I think indie brands really are at the forefront of championing this, it’s just reaching people that’s the challenge!
What is the process like for designing products and picking out your slogans like “Milking It”?
I am quite dry in my sense of humour, and I knew that slogans had to play a part in the brand to stop things being too cute and serious. We’ve had a few along the way and Milking It – has really stuck. So much so it’s now trademarked in the U.K, the USA, Europe and more to come…safe to say we’ve had a few copycats along the way! I heard a friend say something along the lines of “you spend your years building a brand, then years protecting it“ amen to that.
Milking It is what we are most recognised for now and I just never get bored of it. I can just picture every parent smirking when they change their baby into it, who no doubt is 100% milking it. In every sense.
I love the design process; I think that’s where I find the most validation in my business and happiness. Something coming to life from my head is the best buzz. I normally consider what I feel is missing or I’d love to see out there. Seeing little ones, and matching parents in the ideas from my head is the best feeling. I tend to start with a sketch, and I brief the factory to do a toile (a mock up) on that and we put it with fabrics and get samples made. I love all those little attention bits, the labels and stitch colours, button placements etc. All makes such a difference to the end result.
Can you tell us about some highs and lows of starting your own small business?
Five years in, I can say there has been some extreme highs and lows. In every decision you make you either learn or you grow which is important to recognise. There really is no “how to” guide. Every decision big or small has been totally on my shoulders. Which some days I find easier than others!
High points, those ‘pinch me’ moments when you curate and dream of a brand and see people wearing or loving it – Zoe and Alfie the exact example here! Seeing them receive their order, watching as a fly on the wall, was one of my proudest moments. I have imagined that moment for expectant excited parents so many times but never witnessed it. I imagine how many people have had that feeling through buying something I created, that’s a high.
A big positive is flexibility! Your time is your own, which works well for me. I like to structure my days, but I am so unproductive from 11am-2pm so I normally allow myself some time for exercise, a great lunch, meeting a friend etc but I get up at 6am and work, because I love a peaceful morning and I find my work is better that way.
Flip side is, you must be so driven to keep getting up and going day after day. No one else is pushing, so you have to bring that energy. It’s tough, especially when sales aren’t as positive, or the delivery is missing somewhere between India and the U.K and no one knows where, or your website crashes when launching new product (all things I’ve had to handle). With that, I find there is no off button. When you’re on holiday and not relaxing because you just need to send that email, post on instagram, I feel like I need to learn to be more present which I think a lot of small business owners can relate to.
Skies the limit. I love that feeling when it’s my own company. It comes with the fear factor but there is no ceiling with your own brand. I love that the future is in my own hands.
I think all moments of validation are really personal to the business and person behind it. Everyone has their own dream, and vision to tap into. The high points totally outweigh the low, which is the reason we do it!
What’s the best advice for someone wanting to start a new business?
You need to align your mindset and motivation to get moving. Be totally sure that you are passionate about what you want to create or sell. Either a service based or product-based business that applies. Someone’s passion for their brand or profession shows and its infectious. I think it helps people connect with you. You can tell when something is half hearted!
I’d also say, spending your time looking too much at your competition is dangerous. Be focused on your own mission, people will come and go. You will think everyone else has something you don’t but all journeys are different. Someone can turn over a million pounds and make no profit, it’s all relative to your goals…!
I’d also suggest getting advice and being clear on areas that make you feel nervous. I always found figures and accounts daunting. Turns out I just needed to find the right fit for me with my accountant, she is the best decision I made last year! I am growing more and more confident, and I feel like we’re a team. When you work on your own it’s so important to find that support.
I’d always recommend for someone to go for it with starting their own business. There is always room for what you want to create, and I think if you have that idea and passion then you’re so much further than most people. Get your plan in place, get your people in place, and be brave. No growth ever happens in your comfort zone.
What are you currently working on?
I am working on newness for next spring and I am really feeling a bit of 70’s styling and some country and western details. Tricky as I never like to be too “trend” led especially with unisex baby clothing, but a little nod won’t hurt. I love working really in season, I cannot hold onto ANYTHING If I love it, booking too far in advance just doesn’t work for me. So If I am working on something it’s likely to launch soon. Nightmare to manage but it makes me happy!
I have been trying to look at refreshing our Milking It collection to grow it a little more with some new fabrics and sleepsuits. I hope I’ll be able to launch them this Winter, so eyes peeled! I keep trying to think of the friend of “milking it” as another slogan, so if anyone has any great ideas let me know!
What are some of your other favourite small business baby brands?
Oh so many. My dearest friend Eleanor from Nellie Quats – we’re each other’s biggest cheerleaders and I don’t think I could do this without her. She has the most beautiful girlswear brand. Totally different to Claude & Co which I think helps our friendship. I have a great relationship with Bethany at Ando Stores, and we’ve worked on some collaborations together to sell exclusively across our stores, and there’s more to come. Her eye for product is like no other, and I think when I have a baby (one day) I’ll be shopping on there 24/7. Some brands I love, Silly Silas (dreamy combination with Claude & Co) Artipoppe carriers are so hot right now and I love them. I’ve always really admired Gray Label for their simple design and clean lines for baby clothing. I like Garbo & Friends and Konges Slojd for interiors and accessories. Olli Ella have always been a big support to me as a brand and I love their entire process and success, they’re wonder women. It’s so inspiring. Not strictly Childrenswear but ‘Mustard Made’… those girls are incredible as are their lockers. The independent childrenswear market is so huge, and I am proud to be in the mix.
What does your perfect weekend look like?
I’m such a brunch girl. Meeting a group of friends or family for slow brunch in the sunshine or by a cosy fireplace is heaven to me, maybe a walk and little shop around. We live in Winchester and it’s great for independent coffee shops. We have an allotment and love spending time there during the summery days, it’s so peaceful. An evening date with my boyfriend, a nice meal somewhere and a great bottle of wine…clearly our life revolves happily around food and socialising.
I love to paint, they keep getting bigger and bigger and we have zero wall space! I have a thing for still life painting with oils, and it’s how I zone out. So taking Sunday to paint is my happy place, preferably with a historical romance tv show on in the background. Bridgeton five times now. Help. Haha!
What do you always carry with you?
My backpack, with so many half used lost and found Mac ‘faux’ lipsticks that it’s a crime. I always have my glasses as I am pretty blind without them! Otherwise I travel very light, I think a year of lockdown has meant it’s normally phone and mask in one hand and glasses in the other.
What would your last ever meal be?
I love good food; I don’t eat dairy now…so I think last meal ever I’d be all over the cheese! Pasta is my go-to, and as basic as it would be…mushroom pasta loaded with a MOUNTAIN of truffle would see me off nicely with a good bottle of red wine. Preferably sandwiched between some crisps and dip and some passion fruit cheesecake to finish thank you! My mouths watering. Ha-ha.
What is one positive piece of advice you could give to our audience?
It’s so exciting when you realise that there is no limit to what you can achieve. Learn about practising manifesting and mindset. Might sound totally woohoo to some people, I hear you. But try to read or listen to books about it. It really has changed my approach to business and life a lot. Learning about being aware of your own power is so addictive. You can take responsibility for the world you create around you. ‘Thoughts become things’ people!
One thing that really helped me align with my ambition, I wrote down moments in my past where I’ve felt validation, whether that’s work or personal, really describe them and be aware of that feeling. Then write, picture or just imagine how they might show up your future. Let yourself go there and get moving towards it.
If book boners exist, then trust us when we say we’re going to be well and truly pitching a tent this summer. Here’s a look at the blurbs!
Our book club dump is here to complete your balmy summer TBR list. In this semester’s line up, we’ve got the ultimate beach read in Lizzy Dent’s latest feel-good rom com The Summer Job, Transcendent Kingdom – the ruminative second novel by Yaa Gyasi (prepare to be both speechless and ruined in the best possible way) and A Slow Burning Fire by Paula Hawkins, a scorching new thriller from the best-selling author of The Girl on the Train.
If book boners exist, then trust us when we say we’re going to be well and truly pitching a tent this summer. Here’s a look at the blurbs!
July – The Summer Job by Lizzy Dent
Part Bridesmaids, Fleabag and Bridget Jones, there’s no poolside pal with a sense of humour quite like Lizzy Dent’s The Summer Job.
Have you ever imagined running away from your life?
Well Birdy Finch didn’t just imagine it. She did it. Which might’ve been an error. And the life she’s run into? Her best friend, Heather’s.
The only problem is, she hasn’t told Heather. Actually there are a few other problems…
Can Birdy carry off a summer at a luxury Scottish hotel pretending to be her best friend (who incidentally is a world-class wine expert)?
And can she stop herself from falling for the first man she’s ever actually liked (but who thinks she’s someone else)
Yaa Gyasi’s searing follow up to her acclaimed best-seller Homegoing delivers a powerful and moving portrait of a family of Ghanaian immigrants, ravaged by depression, grief and addiction.
As a child Gifty would ask her parents to tell the story of their journey from Ghana to Alabama, seeking escape in myths of heroism and romance. When her father and brother succumb to the hard reality of immigrant life in the American South, their family of four becomes two – and the life Gifty dreamed of slips away.
Years later, desperate to understand the opioid addiction that destroyed her brother’s life, she turns to science for answers. But when her mother comes to stay, Gifty soon learns that the roots of their tangled traumas reach farther than she ever thought. Tracing her family’s story through continents and generations will take her deep into the dark heart of modern America.
September – Beautiful World, Where Are You by Sally Rooney
One of the most talked-about authors from the last year following the success of her novel to tv show Normal People – Sally Rooney is back with a brand new book based in Dublin following a quartet of young friends, their lives and their loves.
Alice, a novelist, meets Felix, who works in a distribution warehouse, and asks him if he’d like to travel to Rome with her. In Dublin, her best friend Eileen is getting over a break-up, and slips back into flirting with Simon, a man she has known since childhood.
Alice, Felix, Eileen and Simon are still young—but life is catching up with them. They desire each other, they delude each other, they get together, they break apart. They have sex, they worry about sex, they worry about their friendships and the world they live in. Are they standing in the last lighted room before the darkness, bearing witness to something? Will they find a way to believe in a beautiful world?
The author behind the global phenomenon The Girl on the Train is back with her highly anticipated new thriller. A Slow Burning Fire explores the way no tragedy happens in isolation. Expect a dark plot, intensely believable, human characters and explosive gasp out loud twists.
‘What is wrong with you?’
Laura has spent most of her life being judged. She’s seen as hot-tempered, troubled, a loner. Some even call her dangerous.
Miriam knows that just because Laura is witnessed leaving the scene of a horrific murder with blood on her clothes, that doesn’t mean she’s a killer. Bitter experience has taught her how easy it is to get caught in the wrong place at the wrong time.
Carla is reeling from the brutal murder of her nephew. She trusts no one: good people are capable of terrible deeds. But how far will she go to find peace?
Innocent or guilty, everyone is damaged. Some are damaged enough to kill.
Look what you started.
What book has got you truly hyped for a summer of good reads?
General acts of self-care that keep you feeling stable and grounded might be as simple as taking the bins out or changing your bedding, but oftentimes treating yourself to some well deserved TLC can be just what you need for a mental and physical recharge.
Pampering is second nature to most of us after 18 months of desperately trying to entertain ourselves indoors, so it’s safe to say the team didn’t struggle in picking out our dream evening-in accompaniments. Pass us the Vino, please!
General acts of self-care that keep you feeling stable and grounded might be as simple as taking the bins out or changing your bedding, but oftentimes treating yourself to some well deserved TLC can be just what you need for a mental and physical recharge. Never underestimate the power of the humble face mask.
And finding a peaceful state of mind doesn’t have to involve a far flung holiday destination or exclusive spa day (which is just as well really, Boris)- it can be as simple as carrying out small acts that encourage a state of zen in your own home. Be it a bubble bath, curling up with your favourite book or blasting Ms Swift’s Folklore (a surefire win), it’s important to prioritise recharging your batteries now more than ever as your social calendar fills up.
Keep scrolling to see the team’s must-have pamper picks…
Zoe
When it comes to a pamper evening I tend to start off with a bath and a body scrub, followed by a moisturiser! Slip into some freshly washed pjs, whack on the Neom well-being pod with an essential oil and some good eye masks and just relaxing for a while, maybe listen to a calming app or meditation and then pop a space mask on. If you stay awake past this point I’ll be surprised haha!
If I’m having a pamper night I’m doing it properly, ordering in the Whispering Angel, getting the bougie face mask out, having a long soak in the bath and maybe even moisturising my body for once. You know it’s serious when the body moisturiser comes out. Part of my pampering ritual includes slipping into some fresh pjs and slippers and then spending the rest of the evening reclined with the pink water. Cheers to that!
When it comes to a pamper evening the key words for me are “mask” and “moisture” I basically want to go to bed feeling like a slippery seal. I’ll start with a bath and whack off all body hair below my eye brows with an Estrid razor, believe the IG ads it really is the best, you’ll never go back after you’ve tried it. A lot of hair masks are just conditioners left on longer so I prefer to use the Olaplex no.3 which is a pre shampoo treatment that you can really feel a difference with after one use, it works to fix hair instead of just coating it in something, again believe the Olaplex hype nothing comes else close to their technology. I’ll also do a face mask whilst my conditioner gets to work and this new Summer Friday’s one sounds divine! Then when i’m out the bath I’ll moisturise my whole body with a cream I reserve ‘for best’ and maybe even do a foot mask now I’m all about the sandal life.
I love a pamper night and I think it’s so important for your mental wellbeing to take some time out treating yourself and relaxing. I absolutely love the Olaplex No.3 hair mask, It’s transformed my hair and I use it once a week! While I have a hair mask on I always need a face mask too, this Mugwort one from axis-y is incredible, really clears the pores. Foot masks are also a good addition to a pamper night too. I recently got a new body scrub for my birthday and it is INSANE, it’s from Mallows Beauty called the Coconut and Coffee Body Scrub, my skin has never been so soft (also fab for getting off leftover self-tan). Lastly a nice relaxing candle really sets the mood, some snacks and a good Netflix series.
I consider myself a bit of a queen of pampering and knowing what makes me feel good as a suckler for routine and self-care so my evening in routine is nailed! It sometimes feel superficial to include beauty/skincare in a self-care category but often physical pampering is such a beneficial, tangible step you can take in making yourself feel good and a hair mask and clean, fresh face are my go-to, easy steps. I’ve spoken about this Bleach London mask before because it’s just so blaaddy good and is a must for anyone with coloured hair IMO! The Peachy Clean Scientia is also a dream and oil cleansers always feel quite luxurious for a pamper night I think.
To really set the mood I’ll light some incense and pop on my favourite chill tunes which rotates between Folklore and Evermore and voila, the perfect pamper evening.
When I think pamper nights I imagine me and my mum sitting on the sofa, face masks on, cucumber on the eyes and painting our nails. We’ll have a good film on in the background and burn a lavender candle. Probably have a cheeky glass of wine and of course some snacks too.
