Whilst Kate Winslet’s character in The Holiday implies that being single at Christmas is worse than realising someone else has polished off your turkey/stuffing leftovers, in reality, December as a singleton can actually be quite magical. Hear us out…

Society as a whole is intent on pushing the narrative that everything is better in twos, and whilst there are of course so many beautiful moments to be had when you’re in lurve at xmas, it’s not the be all and end all of living your best life if you happen to be single right now. From spending more time on the things that are important to YOU, and having a little extra £££ to treat yourself to a present or two (don’t mind if we do), the list of benefits to prioritising yourself when single this December is truly endless.

Here are just 20 of the plentiful reasons to make the most of your time without a S/O over the Christmas period of 2021, and remember when you’re 80 you’ll likely look back on your hot girl years with envy. Do with that what you will

Enjoy an entire honey drenched Camembert to yourself. That’s it. That’s the tweet.

Revel in having more money for your own presents- duh! Jo Malone
candles and White Company PJs are being added to basket as we speak.

There’s no pressure to spend time with their in-laws and extended fam you really don’t vibe with. Sorry Janet your bubble and squeak isn’t as good as you think :/

You can snog Jamie from IT (who you’ve been daydreaming about across the photocopier for approx 200 days straight) at the Christmas party sans guilt. That LBD really works wonders!

Your legs can remain unshaved under your Bridget Jones knickers and shapeless pyjamas without a second thought.

You can post all the Christmas glam thirst traps your heart desires.

You can watch all the rom coms you want in PEACE. Love Actually will be on every single day of December and who’s going to tell you otherwise?! There will be no chick-flick shaming on our watch.

You can enjoy quality time with your family and friends without having to juggle another person’s schedule too. Your time is all your own, baby! We’re talking excessively long lie-ins, hour-long baths and days on the sofa galore.

You can relate to the heartbroken Christmas songs that remind you of your ex, and let it be known there’s something extremely cathartic about crying along to Last Christmas with a glass of mulled wine, just sayin’.

Is there any time better than a flirty Christmas romance with the hometown love interest that pops up once a year? Locking eyes across the pub in a wine-induced haze is the stuff of winter dreams. Alexa, play ‘Tis The Damn Season.

Splash out on your nearest and dearest and those you know will be there for you 4ever. There shall be no ‘Why did I ever spend £200 on THEM’ regret round here.

Relish in the love for the festive season and all it has to offer that doesn’t rely on someone else. You are 100% complete on your own and don’t let romance films make you question otherwise!

You can smash out both parts of Fairytale of New York at karaoke like a boss.

There’s no need to pretend you like the lacklustre present from a S/O with zero taste. It might sound harsh but are you ever going to wear that fluffy cardigan? No.

It’s time to bash out all the TV series you’ve been meaning to catch up on this year without waiting for your bf/gf to be available too. Next episode please.

A Christmas Eve smooch with a randomer. Need we say more.

Got a winged liner, smokey eye, false lash, extreme contour and red lip look planned? No biggie. Take as long as you need to get ready and enjoy the sweet, sweet silence of absolutely no one pestering you to hurry up.

Lap up the empowerment of doing everything you’re expected to do in a couple on your own or with friends. We’re talking Christmas markets, ice skating and trying every single coffee chain’s festive drink offerings. Rewrite the rules and know the obsession with romantic relationships is one we all feel, but needn’t.

Starfish in the bed of your family home in your new Christmas PJs AND take all of the duvet because why the f*ck not.

Lap up the time to reflect, journal and look back on your year whilst making big and beautiful plans for the next 365 days centred around your happiness.

First off, how has your 2021 been?

Whilst there have been the obvious challenges, it has been a really exciting year for me. In April I left my job in fashion buying and embarked on all things Heather Evelyn.

I also got married in the summer which was the best day ever! Our wedding was delayed from last year but we felt so fortunate that it could eventually happen, so in lots of ways I have had quite an eventful year!

Can you tell us about your background and journey to starting your own brand?

I’ve always been really creative – I studied Art at Central St. Martins before doing History of Art at Nottingham. Straight out of university I worked in retail seven days a week in an attempt to build up my experience (and pay my rent!), and it was definitely some of the hardest work I’ve done!

After a few months, I got work experience in the head office of the store I was working in and eventually landed a job as a buyer’s assistant. Here I helped launch the company’s first homeware range, before moving to online retailer ASOS in 2014. I loved the fast-paced nature of the work and the volume of product was a huge change. It certainly taught me some core skills that I still need for Heather Evelyn – organisation is key and so are supplier relationships!

Alongside my 9-5(ish) I joined a print studio in Peckham and made prints using a technique called screen printing, which was something I had first started at school. When the first lockdown hit my studio closed, but with ample spare time on my hands, I found a local paper supplier in Stockwell, took over my living room and started making cards!

The next step was to create a website to sell my product on, I chose the provider Squarespace and launched Heather Evelyn online in September 2020. It is incredible to think you can create a website so quickly, and immediately have a platform to sell your product via. Instagram has also been a really amazing marketing tool, and I would recommend anyone to start here first! Alongside my own stories and posts lovely customers also share my work in their own content which leads to more people finding out about what I do. Over Christmas I saw the power of Instagram and gained a small following which saw the start of my business growth – I am so grateful for every share and post!

For those that don’t know, tell us about Heather Evelyn?

It began as an online stationery brand selling my greetings cards and notelets. I then added the illustrated candles, which are now best sellers and I get lots of sweet messages from customers about these. I’m always working on new products, including growing my small homeware collection with new table linen and candle holders coming soon, which I am really excited about.

Recently I have started working with a print company called Calverts in Bethnal Green who do a lovely job at printing my designs. Whilst I love the handmade element, larger orders have made this task impossible…I need my sleep! Tradition and craftsmanship are what I love though so I am using a printing process called lithographic printing (which has been around since the 19^th century!).

With a focus on seasonal events, the idea of gifting really excites me and gives purpose to my products. I have just supplied my first Christmas order to Selfridges, which was such a proud moment seeing my product in-store! I also supply a few smaller retailers locally which is lovely – one of the first was Wild by Tart in London who have been so supportive, and it is nice to feel I have a wider team with the stockists that I work with.

What is the process like for creating a new product?

Always a sketch! I find I have so many ideas (often as I am trying to sleep or when I stir at night), so I try to keep a note but it is hard when it’s something visual.

What have some of the highs and lows been of starting your own business?

The highs are definitely in the creative process and then at the end when a product finally makes it on site. However, there are lots of steps in between, and these can be where the lows crop up. Recently I have been missing having a team to share ideas with, at ASOS you always worked in large teams and it was always really nice to share your successes.

Getting to grips with the tech and general admin essentials to start your business has been a challenge, but fortunately, there is so much help online and the website provider that I use (Squarespace) is geared up for first-time users which is perfect.

Things take time – as I mentioned there are lots of steps and you also don’t necessarily know if the path you are on is the right one, so the uncertainty can sometimes be daunting. However, having support from your customers and online community is brilliant.

I still remember when I first spotted my product in a weekend magazine, I was over the moon! As a small business, it is unbelievable to see your product sit beside established brands.

What are your tip gifts for anyone looking to treat someone to some Heather Evelyn this Christmas?

If you are going all out, pick a primary colour to base your own Christmas theme on and work from that – my favourites are the red diamond wrap and multi baubles, which work nicely together! I think the last 18 months have also required us to get creative in order to stay in touch, and nothing beats an old-fashioned Christmas card.     

How do you create your infamous handwritten candles?

All you need is a fun or loveable quote!

Can you tell us some of your favourite small businesses?

Sleepy Doe, a British brand that has the most incredible PJ sets, they offer matching prints for adults & children which I just love!

Wax Atilier, candle brand that has the yummiest palette

Thread The Word, Sarah offers bespoke gifts, embroidering homeware and clothing. Recently she had a wedding favour commission, personalised Christmas decs which is the best idea ever!

Binibamba, another British brand that has really gorgeous sheepskin accessories for children

What are you working on for next year?

I have just launched my first line of gift wrap which has been well received and I would love to expand this range – I have a real obsession with gift wrap and ribbon!

Also to come are some new candlesticks which a lot of people asked for last year and it’s taken some time but I’m so pleased to have worked with a ceramicist that is finishing my first batch at the moment – they will be launching next month.

Then believe it or not I am starting to think about next Christmas and of course every event in between.

What does your perfect weekend look like?

I love to do something fun on Friday night, if I can get out and into London, it’s great to feel the buzz of the city after spending the week working at home. Then Sunday always feels the most relaxing, a nice walk somewhere, Richmond Park is a real favourite for me and my dog Rudy. Followed by a tasty brunch then catch up with friends or family.

What do you always carry with you?

A notebook for ideas and sketches, plus magazines – I have so many subscriptions plus the free ES & Stylist are great.

What would your last ever meal be?

Probably this mushroom chicken dish that my Mum has cooked me for years, then followed by something sweet for pudding!

What is one positive piece of advice you could give to our audience?

Don’t doubt yourself, take the enthusiasm you have for an idea, run with it and turn it into something great!

2021 may have been an improvement on the year we’d rather forget, but it has certainly still had endless highs and lows that mean a well needed rest, reset and recharge this Christmas are something worth counting down for. And although the most wonderful time of the year is the perfect time to celebrate your nearest and dearest and spill out the thoughts and feelings that have filled your gratitude journal over the past 365 days, we’re here to remind you that you also deserve to feel special and treat yourself in ways you normally wouldn’t, just because you can. 

In the same vein of deliciously ‘AHHH’ worthy presents you’d buy for your bestie, look no further than this edit for a selection of gift ideas that will make your year too! From luxury candles to keepsake jewellery, indulgent make-up (hello Gucci) to new artwork to spice up your home, find something that makes your heart sing and add it the basket before the self deprecating voice (that we all have btw) tells you you don’t deserve it. You can be your own best friend if you let yourself be treated like one, and if that’s not an attitude to take into 2022 we don’t know what is…

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Having a sober Christmas this year? Join the club.

There are bottomless benefits of celebrating the holidays without booze, the best one of all being fresh as a daisy for Boxing Day / Christmas Day take two and revelling in the smugness of your good, responsible choices.

Zero alcohol spirits and mocktails are having a real moment, so your cup will be full to the brim, literally and metaphorically. Whether you’re teetotal all year round, expecting a baby or just embracing the holiday season and going easy on the mulled stuff because you don’t need booze to have a good time, these alcohol-free cocktails will ensure you’re happy and hangover-free through all the merriment.

Now is as good a time as any to be sober curious and with this drinks menu at your fingertips, December 25th will be anything but dull. See you at the bar!

Apple Highball

Beer fear doesn’t live here. Using the Seedlip Garden 108 combined with apple juice, lemon and maple syrup you’ll be able to get through your day without a hint of humiliation.

Add 60ml of Garden 108, 30ml unfiltered apple juice, 15ml lemon juice and 15ml maple syrup to a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake and strain into a highball glass, top with soda, fresh ice and an apple fan for garnish.

Source: Apple Highball | Non-Alcoholic Cocktails | Seedlip

Espresso MartiNO

An absolute coffee lover’s dream, perfect for perking you up when you feel yourself nodding off to the Eastenders special.

Simply add 60ml of Seedlip Spice 94, 50ml of a cold brew concentrate of your choice and 15ml sugar syrup to a shaker. Add ice and shake. Garnish with fresh coffee beans to make your no-liquor pièce de resistance look and taste like the real deal.

Source: Espresso MartiNO | Non-Alcoholic Cocktails | Seedlip

Sober Santa Christmas Punch

Serve up a big bowl of this holiday punch with a ladle so guests can help themselves. In a large punch bowl, mix 2 cups of cranberry juice, 1 cup of OJ and 1 cup of pineapple juice. Give it a good stir. When you’re ready to serve, add 2 cups of sparkling apple juice or apple cider and 1 cup of ginger ale for a festive kick. Finish with fresh orange slices, pomegranate seeds or cherries for garnish and plenty of ice.

Source: Non Alcoholic Christmas Punch For The Holidays – The Mindful Mocktail

The JOMO {Joy Of Mulling Out}

For an easy booze-free take on this traditional festive tipple loved by all, grab a bottle of non-alcoholic Merlot or pomegranate juice and cranberry juice if you prefer + orange slices, cloves, cinnamon sticks and star anise. If you’re going for the juice option, you’ll need 2 cups of water too.

For a true lazy gal recipe, bung it all in the slow cooker on low for 1.5 hours whilst you crack on with some Christmas wrapping. When it’s done and your house is smelling like a Homesense aisle, strain the mulling spices, pour into a heatproof glass or mug and garnish with a slice of orange and hit play on Mariah. Cheers to the joy of mulling out. You’re not missing a thing!

Spice Ingredients:

8 cloves
3 star anise
1 orange sliced
1 cinnamon stick

PS if you’d rather cook on the stove, bring your mulled mix to a gentle boil on a medium heat, then steam for 30 minutes and strain as above.

Source: Non Alcoholic Mulled Wine | Mulled Wine Alcohol Free

CosNO-politan

Christmas off the sauce never looked better. Put all the ingredients in a shaker, fine strain and pour in a coupette glass – she fancy! Garnish with orange zest and enjoy every last smug sip.

Ingredients:

45ml Lyre’s Pink London Gin
15ml Lyre’s Orange Sec
15ml lime juice
30ml cranberry juice
7.5ml strawberry syrup
Lemon twist (optional)

Source: Lyre’s Pink London Cosmopolitan

Everleaf Vanilla Sour

For something rich and decadent to see you through the cocktail party, let this vanilla sour elevate your dry December with aplomb. Add all ingredients to a shaker, strain into a cocktail glass and garnish with a lemon twist or edible flowers.

Ingredients:

50ml Everleaf FOREST
25ml fresh lemon juice
15ml vanilla syrup
15ml aquafaba or egg white

Source: Vanilla Sour

The Merry Mojito Doppelganger

For a bright and complex alternative to the classic minty mojito, add 50ml Everleaf MOUNTAIN, 25ml fresh lime juice, 15ml wildflower honey, 6-8 mint leaves and pomegranate seeds to a highball glass. Mix until the honey has dissolved. Top up the glass with crushed ice and churn with a cocktail spoon. Garnish with a sprig of fresh mint and you’re good to knock it back. Aesthetically-pleasing, festive, thirst-quenching but most importantly, a friend to all (foreheads).

Source: MOUNTAIN Fizz

Let It Snow(Ball)

The designated driver shall not be an afterthought this year with this indulgent non-alcoholic take on the classic Snowball.

For the syrup, heat together sugar and water until the sugar dissolves. Leave to cool and pour into a jar. Add the mincemeat to infuse overnight. Strain the mixture and reserve the syrup. Measure out 10ml of the syrup, mix with the other ingredients until white and frothy. Pour into glasses, dust with cinnamon and garnish with redcurrants. For extra points, rim your glasses with cinnamon sugar. Cin-cin!

Ingredients:

Snowball:

300ml vanilla ice cream
100ml lemon juice
500ml diet lemonade
½ tsp ground cinnamon
60g redcurrants

Syrup:

10g mincemeat
25g sugar
25ml water

Source: Snowball Christmas Mocktail Recipe

Zero Proof Bellini

A prosecco-based cocktail made virgin – this zero proof bellini has enough fire in its fizz that you’ll be hard pressed to tell it apart from its boozy counterpart.

Using a chilled champagne flute, add 25ml peach puree. Top it up with London Essence White Peach and Jasmine Crafted Soda for posh champagne-style bubbles, leaving just enough room for a curl of lemon zest. All we want is Soft Seltzer for Christmas.

Source: Zero Proof Bellini | Non-Alcoholic Cocktail Recipe | The London Essence Co.

Jolly White Russian

Curl up with this cool ‘n’ creamy classic + your favourite Hallmark movie and sleep soundly knowing that you didn’t ruin the family portrait this year.

Divide the crushed ice between 4 glasses, leaving the rest in a cocktail shaker. Add the coffee syrup to the shaker then the milk. Attach the lid and give it a gentle shake. Pour into your glasses, garnish and get sinking the good stuff. Merry Christmas, ya filthy sober animal.

Ingredients:

Ice Cubes (10 crushed)
Cold coffee syrup
Arla B.O.B milk
Shaved Milk Chocolate
Cinnamon stick for garnish

Source: Virgin White Russian

Oh the weather outside will soon be frightful, and a new season coat is so delightful! Is there anything more deliciously indulgent than a new piece of outerwear to start the cool winter season? We think not…

From puffers to trench coats and shearling to quilted numbers too, the options for a slice of newness on your coat stand mean simply choosing one will likely be as much of a challenge as deciding on which Christmas coffee to try from Starbs first. And unlike the winter of 2020 (the darkest of times) in which the most love your coat was ever gonna get was a walk down to the local park or beach, this season your newest purchases can be shown off in all their glory at the ice rink, Christmas market and en route to your Friendmas dinner for maximum value for money paid in compliments and ‘oooh where did you get it?!’ remarks. Did someone say main character energy?

Keep scrolling to see Team Zoella’s top picks from the dream destinations that are & Other Stories, Jakke, Whistles, Skinnydip and more…

Danielle

It’s so hard trying not to buy a hundred coats as soon as the colder months come. I feel like a coat is such a big part of my outfit (especially when I’m wearing jeans 90% of the time) that I really need a lot of trend-led outerwear to update my looks. I’ve picked 4 coats I’m drooling over that I think will serve many different purposes, the first being this gorgeous white smart coat from River Island, which I’d save “for best” obviously! The second is a black quilted long coat from H&M, perfect for throwing on for work or the pub on a Saturday afternoon. The third had to be a trench, so good when you just need a light layer on top of your bulky Christmas jumper, great for heading into town and brunch. The 4th and final had to be something in this season’s most desired green, this little smart jacket would be great for evening events and office days!

*River Island, CREAM DOUBLE BREASTED COAT, £90 | *H&M, Quilted outdoor coat, £49.99 | *ASOS, double-layer trench coat in navy, £75 | *Weekday, Tower Wool Jackets, £90

Lareese

I look forward to the crisp mornings every year, when you can throw a coat over any outfit and look somewhat put-together, regardless of what’s underneath. Zara and H&M are my faithful favourites for an everyday coat that’s guaranteed to work with my whole wardrobe. For fun fashion-forward coats and jackets, I’ve recently discovered the brand Jakke. If you’re in the market for an investment piece and want to make a statement this season, Jakke needs to be on your radar! I’m obsessed with the cuffs on the green Bailey coat.

*Arket, Leather-Trimmed Pile Anorak, £125 | *H&M, Quilted coat, £49.99 | *H&M, Faux shearling jacket, £34.99 | Zara, OVERSIZE COAT – SPECIAL EDITION, £79.99 | Jakke, Bailey Coat Bright Green, £249

Charlotte

My coat collection is one that’s always growing and I am of the opinion that you can never have enough- they literally make up your whole outfit in the winter months so I can always justify more! Most of my current coats are short so I think this season I need to invest in a few that offer maximum warmth and cover my bum at least. ASOS is my go-to but I always sleep on H&M and they’ve got some good’uns this year!

Skinny Dip, Borg Trim Midi Faux Leather Coat, £80 | *ASOS, sharp collar trench coat in stone, £70 | *H&M, Long puffer jacket, £39.99

Darcey

Winter jackets are the first thing I get excited about when the colder days begin, they really do make an outfit, but you also want them to be practical as well (especially living in the UK with rainy cold days). Marks & Spencer have the perfect longline quilted coat, super affordable and very lightweight but warm, so it’s perfect for the commute/dog walking etc. I also found a really lovely shearling jacket, perfect for those sunny crisp mornings, also both of these jackets are pretty timeless so I know they’ll do me well for years to come. Lastly, this mono check jacket from Topshop is SO NICE, I am obsessed with it. I urge everyone to buy it.

*Marks & Spencer, The Quilted Coat, £79 | *Marks & Spencer, Faux Shearling Aviator Jacket, £69 | *ASOS, Topshop mono check longline borg coat, £96

Holly

I went to Liverpool in September and all my coats got stolen, genuinely 4 coats/jackets so I have some very recent experience shopping for winter coats. I was very sensible and brought coats for every eventuality. I got a practical black puffer one for the wintery walks and national trust trips I’m planning. A fun faux fur one to subdue the heartbreak of my strawberry coat being stolen and a leather jacket for when we’re queuing for the club. As well as a fancier one for work and day to day life where pink fluffy clouds might not be acceptable.

*Boohoo, Plus Leather Look Quilted Biker Jacket, £55 | Skinny Dip, Pink Cloudy Faux Fur Coat, £65 | Zara, WATER-REPELLENT PUFFER COAT, £89.99 | *Dorothy Perkins, Popper Hem Wrap Coat, £80

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If deciding which is the superior Christmas chocolate hasn’t already been dubbed the hardest choice of the festive period, committing to one decorative theme is surely a close second. Spoiler: Surely Maltesers is the unrivalled winner, no? And in the year in which we can finally welcome our nearest and dearest back into our homes for celebrations galore, you best believe the stakes are higher than ever for nailing a style that leaves your house feeling like a home for your loved ones to enjoy. After all, and in the words of Paul McCartney, “The moon is right, the spirits up. We’re here tonight, and that’s enough”…

From mantelpiece garlands to tree decorations, table centrepieces and entranceways that wow, there’s endless decorative options to explore when Christmas-ifying your home this festive season. Etsy search reports this year are cementing the humble tablescape as the decor trend to watch, with searches for place settings up 72%, tablescape decor up 27%, and napkin rings up 19%. Get your festive tablecloths at the ready! 

If you’re having trouble deciding which (snowy) route to follow for Christmas 2021, look no further for the ultimate inspiration guide of our three favourite decorative styles and themes: Retro, Scandi and Natural Florals. 

Novelty Retro Fun

Sometimes the classics are best: Mariah’s version of ‘All I Want for Christmas’, Love Actually over recent Xmas movies and mince pies without the newfangled toppings, and for some, that’s the mantra for Christmas decks too. Red, green, white and gold are traditional Christmas through and through, and you can’t go far wrong by incorporating those colours into your home year in and year out. For this theme, it’s all about mixing the traditional, passed down through the decades decks, with some kitsch and retro additions to curate a fun, colourful yet traditionally Christmasified space. We recommend heading over to W.A Green for a huge selection of fun colourful novelty ornaments! Mix up your textures with a combination of paper, glass and plastic decorations, as the combination of all three works seamlessly to add volume and pizzaz to your spruce, even if it is a sorry looking faux version that’s definitely seen better days…

Shop: The White Company Pre-Lit Grand Spruce Christmas Tree, £645

Shop: W.A. Green, range of novelty colourful Chrismas baubles and celebrity ornaments

When it comes to dressing your table: more is more, period. For a simple way to inject a little more va va voom into your dining room, opt for colourful plates (and mismatched designs too if you’re feeling brave) against a darker cloth to really make them pop, and finally, in the name of pre-dinner tradition, finish with a chic set of crackers (we went for personalised cocktail crackers from The Buffalo). If your roast dinner spread doesn’t take up your entire table (who could blame you) then centrepieces are a great way to carry through decor choices throughout your home, and they needn’t be expensive either! Stack paper garlands and lanterns and surround them with candles (at a safe distance) and consider your table of dreams complete! 

For some real novelty fun that’s guaranteed to evoke a reaction from your guests, hang mismatched baubles from a chandelier or hanging light feature with some leftover ribbon and watch as your living space is transformed to a colourful haven Santa and his elves would feel right at home in.

Shop: Habitat 100 Pack of Bright Baubles, £12

Shop: The Buffalo, Personalised Christmas Cocktail Crackers, £18

Minimal, Modern, Scandi

‘Tis the season for bringing the outside in and this Christmas aesthetic just so happens to cement itself as a true celebration of all things foliage, foliage and foliage – if you’re a fan of holly, red berries and mistletoe, then look no further. Sarah O’Sullivan, Home Designer and Partner at John Lewis sums this up, noting that “carefully considered design details are at the heart of Natural Scandinavian style. Layering natural materials will add interest and draw on the appeal of nature within the home”

Shop: H&M, Snowflake Garland, £17.99

Shop: The White Company Pre-Lit Grand Spruce Christmas Tree, £645
Shop: H&M, Dark Green Glittery Garland, £12.99

The soft colour palette instantly adds an element of zen to your home, with no bright colours or dazzling decorations that steal the show, simply beautifully understated decor that feels sophisticated and warm. Of all the Christmas decor styles to opt for, Scandi is best suited to minimal design lovers who favour earthy tones and pared-back additions to their treasured humble abode.

Scandinavian winters are long and harsh, meaning inviting indoor spaces are important for those living in these super cold conditions more than most. The Danish word ‘hygge’, roughly translating to “a mood of coziness and comfortable conviviality with feelings of wellness and contentment” became an international buzzword and design trend in recent years, but is especially desirable during the festive period. Ultimate cosiness after a cold walk home from the bus stop? Yes please!

Shop: H&M, 2-pack tapered candles, £1.99

Stick with one clear, neutral colour palette, encompassing greens, whites, gold and other earthy tones with everything from tree decorations to wrapping paper and crackers to emulate the clean and cosy ambience of Scandi living. Add the characteristic warmth of a typical Scandinavian design with fairy lights, candles and soft mood lighting and prepare to never want to leave your house again! 

For those with little storage in their homes or who want to minimise the amount of Christmas decorations they’re purchasing, the Scandi aesthetic might just be the one for you- a Scandinavian touch really does go a long way. 

Fruity & Floral

Maximalist, colour lovers rejoice- this festive aesthetic is for you! If there was ever an ultimate oxymoron at Christmas it might just be florals in winter, but we’re not mad about how much sense this theme makes once it all comes together. Trust the process, people! 

Shop: John Lewis & Partners, Festive Field Dogwood Spray, £8.00

For those whose fancy isn’t tickled by a traditional bauble design then consider the humble carnation (or flower of your choice) your friend in this instance, and watch as your tree is transformed into a colourful oasis of joy that you can’t help but smile at. Simply attach flowerheads with some floristry wire et voila! Dressing your tree has never been easier or more striking. This trend is one to watch for those who love the natural vibes of Scandi but want to take it to another level with the traditional vibrancy of a Christmas colour palette. If you want to make your spruce look ‘merry and bright’ this is the outfit it deserves. 

Shop: Selfridges & Co, Glitter-embellished foam toadstool Christmas decoration set of two, £28.00

Combine real and faux foliage in this design for the perfect marriage of botanical decor that’s sure to last. With additions such as a Toyon (the perennial shrub classically seen at Christmastime, FYI) your mantelpiece feature is sure to really steal the show. Finish with some woodland themed accessories- think mushrooms, mini toadstools, tiny birds and acorns- and your nature lovin’ mantel is complete. The beauty of this theme is how seamlessly it fits into most interior styles, from minimalist, traditional or farmhouse, this unique and standout festive theme adds a certain je ne sais quoi to any space. 

Shop: John Lewis & Partners, Blush Coast Poinsettia Clip On Decoration, Set of 4, Pink, £6.00

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First off, how has your 2021 been?

2021 has been fast and busy! I can’t believe we’re already in November and the end of the year is approaching. It’s been a strange year for certain, going from the lockdown at the start of the year to the gradual reintroduction of “normal life” back into our daily lives. I feel really fortunate that I’ve been able to pursue so many of my creative goals and ambitions this year, from signing with a new agency for representation for my writing, doing more acting work alongside my writing and establishing my own theatre company, Fury Theatre, focused on “female stories told with fire”. I’ve also had the pleasure of working with brilliant people, and having the support of friends and family along the way, which I’m so grateful for.

Can you tell us about your background and journey to scriptwriting?

I grew up writing stories and poems – and even plays when I got a bit older – but I never really knew that I wanted to be a writer. It didn’t feel like something “someone like me” could do. I was from a small village in Lincolnshire in the Midlands and didn’t know anyone who’d made a successful career doing something like writing. Theatre was my route into creativity from a young age, first as an actor and then realising that I loved writing scripts (and getting to tell other people what to do on stage!) I studied English Literature at the University of York and after graduating, decided to give writing a go and see how it went.

It’s been a long process since then, filled with lots of twists and turns, but I wouldn’t change a thing as I learned so much from each of those ups and downs. When I discovered screenwriting and started collaborating with filmmakers, I really felt like I’d found a new way of telling stories that excited me hugely. I started writing short films initially, before plunging headfirst into feature films with only limited experience – but a strong sense of the kind of stories that I wanted to tell, about women, places and emotional experiences that I felt I hadn’t seen depicted on screens with the complexity they deserve.

Your film Lapwing releases this month, can you tell us what an audience can expect?

Lapwing is a psychological historical thriller that has some challenging themes at its heart, from emotional abuse and coercive control to bigotry, toxic masculinity and misogyny. Set in 1555, on the rural coast of Lincolnshire, Lapwing is the story of a young non-verbal woman, Patience, who lives a suffocating life under the tyrannical thumb of her brother in law. When she meets an illegal traveller, a young man called Rumi, she starts to imagine a different life for herself. But this brings her immediately into conflict with her family and her community – particularly her toxic brother in law who will stop at nothing to keep Patience close.

What gave you the inspiration for writing Lapwing?

Lapwing actually started life as a short film. I have always been inspired by the past in my creative work, and also by isolated rural locations, and these things came together with a very vivid image of a young woman in Tudor dress covered in blood. That probably gives a sense of the tone and some of the themes of Lapwing – violence was always at its heart. From there, I developed the other elements of the character, world and story on my own initially, and then with Philip Stevens, the director of the feature. Lapwing was always going to be a story about a young woman finding her voice in some way and rebelling against the constraints placed upon her, which, like for so many young women, felt like a very resonant story that I could connect with and empathise with.

The movie is set in 1555, how much research goes into writing something set so far back in history?

A lot, in all respects of the process. Not just for me as a writer, but also for the director, the actors and particularly the design team from costume to set and props. It was important to us that Lapwing was as historically accurate as we could make it, and we were really fortunate to be working with incredible creatives who brought the world to life on a minuscule budget. From my perspective, the historical research was really about asking questions about the kind of life Patience would have had, and what her worldview was like compared to the others around her. Patience is in some ways a very modern figure, but she is also a woman of her time.

What is the process like for writing a script and eventually having it become a movie?

Exciting and terrifying in equal measure! It’s a really exciting time when you’re working on a new creative project, but inevitably it’s also scary when you’re handing that script over to other people, who you know will have opinions, ideas and feedback on it. You make yourself vulnerable when you write from the heart and when you write about themes and issues that are really important to you, as I did with Lapwing. But I do believe that the feedback you receive from trusted sources is all about helping you to tell the story you want to tell and ensure it’s communicating itself to the absolute best of your ability. So then the making of the script is a really thrilling process, seeing actors and a whole team of creatives bringing this thing you wrote to life. It can feel quite overwhelming sometimes, and now I’m in the midst of all of the confusing excitement of introducing the film to a wider audience. My mum and dad haven’t even seen it yet, and now it’s getting reviews and will be going out in front of people who I’ll never meet. That’s strange – but totally wonderful.

What are some common misconceptions about scriptwriting and the film industry?

I suppose my biggest misunderstanding about the process of filmmaking was the time these things can take. I was prepared for Lapwing to be a long journey, but it’s been a learning curve for me to really see and feel that play out. Also, it’s been a fascinating process to see how much a film is created and refined in the edit after filming. It makes complete sense retrospectively because the decisions an editor and director make in the edit shape the film, the tone and the way the story is told, but as a writer who’d never experienced a film edit before, that was a really new and interesting experience for me and not one I’d imagined previously.

Do you have to make many compromises on what you had originally imagined when a script gets made into a movie?

Inevitably things have to change on the journey from page to screen, whether that’s because of budget, time constraints on set – or sometimes things just don’t work the way you want them to when you start doing them with real people in a location. I think because of my background in theatre, where there’s always a lot of collaboration between writer, director and actors in the room, I feel quite relaxed about changes that might need to take place. I think it’s about trust – as long as you are working with a team of creatives who understand your story and truly want to put your vision forward along with their own, you’re in safe hands. That was exactly what it was like with Phil Stevens (the director of Lapwing), as I knew that everything he suggested or spoke to me about was to make the story as clear and strong as it could be. Also, Phil always talks to me about changes he might need to make – for whatever reason – which helps enormously, to always feel part of the conversation.

What are you working on now?

At the moment I’m in rehearsals for a new Christmas show for the Durham Gala Theatre. It’s an adaptation of the Nutcracker story called The Nutcracker Re-Miced and told from the perspective of a Rat Pack of three punk-rock loving mice living in the Durham clock tower. It’s been lots of fun to work on something full of life, music and fun – quite a contrast to the darker themes in a lot of my work! I’m also busy working on several new features and TV ideas, as well as developing a new show with my theatre company Fury Theatre.

What does your perfect weekend look like?

Brunch would definitely be involved, along with catching up with friends and family (usually drinking prosecco!) and my partner and I will probably go to the cinema or theatre, head out for a walk around our home city of Lincoln, which is beautiful, and paint together. We both work in the creative industries, so at least some of the weekend will involve some writing for me, and probably rehearsing the current project for the stage as well!

What do you always carry with you?

A tube of Smarties. They’re my essential fuel for writing, and the nostalgia of them always cheers me up!

What would your last ever meal be?

Definitely my mum’s Sunday roast, with my boyfriend’s chocolate mousse for pudding. That’s totally a hint to them, if they feel like cooking for me any time soon!

What is one positive piece of advice you could give to our audience?

Take the time to figure out what it is you want to do, and when you know that – go for it with everything you are. Never hold back and never let fear stop you from doing something. Believe in yourself and push yourself out of your comfort zone. It’s worth it.

The countdown to Christmas is officially on and television sets everywhere are warming up for the epic Christmas ad battle. Much to our delight, some retailers are getting into the spirit of things earlier than ever (18 months of turmoil has that effect), making the most of the lead up to the most wonderful time of the year. We stan the eagerness.

Following the global pandemic, kindness was the overwhelming theme from last year’s flurry of heart-warming ads but which retailer will take the crown for the best Christmas ad 2021? Will Kevin the Carrot reprise his role as Aldi’s most-loved character and who will lend their vocals to the John Lewis soundtrack this time around?

Brief your heartstrings and stick your predictions in a sealed envelope folks, here’s a look at all the surprise entries and big budget crimbo campaigns from your favourite brands so far, along with the iconic debuts from the likes of John Lewis, Marks & Spencer, Coca Cola, Sainsbury’s, Waitrose and Disney as they hit our screens.

John Lewis

And now it’s Christmas! The most anticipated moment of winter tv has crash-landed onto our screens, two weeks earlier than usual and naturally, it’s out of this world.

Set to an ambient soundtrack of Together in Electric Dreams reworked by rising star Lola Young, the ad follows a young teenage boy as he befriends an unexpected guest.

Space traveller Skye lands in the woods near the home of 14-year-old Nathan, who shows her how Christmas is done on earth, from eating mince pies to snowball fights, decorating the tree and wearing novelty jumpers. When the time comes for her return to her home planet, Nathan gifts her a light-up jumper, she pecks him on the cheek and off she flies.

The strapline, ‘For A Christmas As Magical As Your First’ reminds viewers of the importance of sharing traditions and enjoying Christmas with their families again after 2020’s last-minute lockdowns left many missing out on the togetherness of the season.

Claire Pointon, Customer Director at John Lewis, said: “There is nothing more magical than discovering the joy of Christmas for the first time and enjoying your favourite festive moments with loved ones.

“After the last 18 months, we wanted our advert to really celebrate this as we look forward to a brighter future.

“We know our customers are excited for this festive season more than ever, as they reconnect with family and friends. Through the story of Skye and Nathan, we celebrate friendship and are reminded of the joy of experiencing Christmas for the first time.”

Were we overcome with emotion and running off to the loo to compose ourselves Edgar the excitable dragon style? Maybe not, but the festive ad carries a sweet and meaningful message nonetheless.

Sainsbury’s: A Christmas to Savour

Etta James. The cinematography. Every tear-jerking-round-the-table Christmas Day moment captured in 60-seconds flat. That’s how it’s done.

This year’s Saino’s ad captures a series of freeze frames as the camera pans around the room to show a Christmas Day mannequin challenge of sorts. From the champagne spray to the gravy bout mid-pour and the family dog begging for dibs on the roast potatoes, it’s a heartwarming reminder that we’ve been waiting a long time for this big family get-together, without the worry of cutting the guest list down to your six favourite relatives.

Apart from the spinny bit under the table that made us want to vom up a sprout a tiny bit, we liked this seasonal offering from the big orange ones. They might have peaked with the plug boy era (truly the definition of iconic content) but this isn’t a bad attempt at rekindling that modern-day Christmas spirit.

Honourable gripe/mention: We can’t help but notice they seem to be getting shorter and shorter. Mog’s slow blinking Christmas Calamity was a whopping short film compared to this. Bring back the bigger portions next time, please. We need more STORY.

Waitrose – You Can Taste When It’s a Waitrose Christmas

Infused with truffle, stupidly succulent turkey and Heston’s mince pies, the Waitrose ad has gone heavy on food for 2021 and we’re not mad.

It’s the first time in two years that Waitrose, which is part of the John Lewis Partnership, has gone it alone with their advertising campaign, which explains why the grub is the main character this year. Again, we’re not mad.

Starring Extras actress Ashley Jensen and top chef Heston Blumenthal, the light-hearted ad is really just a 60-minute journey that will leave you feeling kind of festive but mostly fucking starving.

Whilst the close-up food shots can come again, we’re not here for the Carol of the Bells mash-up, it feels a little too sinister for us, like Les Mills trying to cobble together a fun festive workout track for us and failing.

Did it set our souls on fire? No. But did it leave us wanting to run down to the world’s most expensive supermarket for a three grand Christmas pudding complete with candied figs? Yes, yes it did. Consider that a job well done. Take all our money.

Amazon

Amazon

What a way for Adele to debut her new song! The 2-minute Amazon ad is set to the goosebump-igniting ballad “Hold On” by Adele – the second glimpse of what to expect on her upcoming album ‘30’.

It tells the story of a young woman anxious about life after lockdown as she attempts to get back to normal, attending university lectures and seeing friends again.

In the next scene, a neighbour heads to the local park to feed the birds and notices the young girl on a bench next to her. After hearing a news update about the rise in anxiety amongst young people on the radio, she realises the young girl is struggling.

Determined to make a difference, she heads home, opens up the app and orders a gift to be delivered to her door.

Upon opening the present, the young girl smiles at the bird feeder and the thoughtfulness of her neighbour. She watches the birds gather on the feeder and glances across at her neighbour as she potters about on her balcony. She then gestures to her heart and mouths ‘thank you’. And just like that, we’re a mess, just like the soundtrack suggests.

Sharing a message about overwhelm and anxiety as we navigate the new normal in the wake of the global pandemic feels as poignant and necessary as ever.

Stripped back, current and unfussy in its approach to Christmas sentiment, it reminds us all that kindness truly is the greatest gift of all. We’re going to put it out there, it’s our favourite ad so far.

Boots

Three whole minutes of tear-jerking joy, Boots really pulled it out the bag this year.

The short film has gone for straight up Mary Poppins vibes featuring a magic bag bursting with sentimental gifts and never-ending glee.

Starring Doctor Who’s Jenna Coleman as Joy (aka chief gift giver and generous angel to her core), the campaign sees a young woman receiving a gift from her nan alongside a note that says, ‘This is what Christmas feels like.’ Realising that her bag contains a stash of perfume and beauty goods, she sets off to save Christmas, delivering thoughtful prezzies to her friends and family, from a polaroid camera to a woolly hat and even eyelashes for a sorry looking snowman. Honestly, we were doing just fine until the nan part at the end. Hold me.

M&S

So that’s what Percy Pig sounds like! The iconic character has been brought to life for the very first time thanks to a little bit of fairy dust and the nation is thrilled about it. Voiced by Marvel’s Tom Holland, Percy Pig can be seen roaming the aisles after hours with the help of his fairy friend, expertly played by national treasure Dawn French. Exploring the delicious treats on offer from triple chocolate panettone to delicate smoked salmon and golden blonde Christmas pudding, this is the best M&S food advert yet and it’s thanks entirely to the Spiderpig crossover we didn’t know we needed.

Elsewhere, their clothing campaign ‘Make the season anything but Ordinary’, staring former Victoria’s Secret model Madisyn Ritland and shot by Autumn de Wilde, showcases all the glitz and glamour of party season with the iconic matching pjs thrown in for good measure.

Very

Very really said Christmas cannot wait by unveiling their festive ad in October and after last year’s last-minute lockdowns and underwhelming festivities, who can ruddy well blame ‘em for starting the celebrations early. Chief Marketing officer Carly O’Brien said that after a pared back Christmas for many in 2020, the retailer wanted to “get into the spirit early and unashamedly embrace the season as soon as the leaves start to fall.”

Titled “It’s the Very Best Excuse” the ad plays on its keen timing with confused Halloween trick or treaters turning up to a house bedecked with Christmas lights and mince pies for treats instead of sweets. Whilst it’s no match for Man on the Moon, we’re all for getting organised and starting early to avoid the hell that is last minute hoo-ha of Christmas shopping.

Etsy

Keen to spread some festive cheer, Etsy dropped their first ad back in October and we’re here for it.

The online retailer has gifted us with not one but two Christmas ads this year, drawing on the importance of unique and meaningful presents.

“Our Santa” is the first 30-second commercial, which highlights the importance of representation, as a father sees how disheartened his own dad is that Santa Claus is always portrayed as a white man with rosy cheeks, in store, on gift bags and jumpers. When Christmas Day arrives, a young boy reaches under the Christmas tree for his grandpa’s gift a fluffy stocking featuring a Santa Claus that looks just like him. When we say our bottom lip left our body.

The second Etsy advert to air in the UK, “The Tradition” focuses on good ol’ neighbourly kindness as an older woman set to spend Christmas on her own is invited for a spot of wild swimming with the rest of the Sea-Gals. A neighbour named Agnes turns up on her doorstep on Christmas Day bearing a special gift – a personalised dry robe and an invitation to join them in celebrating their longstanding tradition.

Disney

Titled “The Stepdad”, this year’s heart-warming short film is a sequel to last year’s instalment and celebrates family togetherness and the power of storytelling.

The sweet story follows Nicole, the granddaughter from 2020, all grown up with two adorable children of her own. Stepdad Mike moves into the family home and bonds with little Max and Ella as they make new festive traditions together and share in the magical storybook gifted to them by their papa.

But chaos ensues when their DIY gingerbread house collapses and the children run off in tears. Mike stays up to reconstruct it and by morning, Max and Ella are happy once more. Not all heroes wear capes.

All proceeds from each download of the soundtrack “Love Runs Deeper” by Grammy award winner, Gregory Porter, will go towards the Make-A-Wish foundation.

Lidl

It seems futuristic Christmas ads are the way to go for 2021 and Lidl certainly got the memo. Set to the soundtrack of Rockin’ Around The Christmas Tree, the one minute Lidl ad starts in the present day with a family gathered round the table tucking into a festive feast with all the trimmings, popping the bubbly and carving the turkey.

The second part cuts to the same scene only this time it’s set decades in the future. Some family members have moved to the moon, they’ve got a cutting-edge laser to carve the turkey, levitating plates and in a plot twist, their pet dog can now talk and even ask for a pig in a blanket.

The final scene leaps even further into the future with the same family still enjoying Lidl’s delectable Christmas spread and getting into the intergalactic spirit of the season, featuring a novelty Christmas jumper we can’t help but want.

Lidl marketing director Claire Farrant, says of their festive ad offering, “After a challenging couple of years, the nation wants to look forward, not back, which is why we’ve set our light-hearted ad decades in the future.

“Given our commitment to always be ‘Big on quality, Lidl on price’ this year we wanted our Christmas advert to show that we really do mean always, no matter what the future has in store for us!”

Aldi

Anyone else over here casually having kittens about Kev the Carrot’s whereabouts?

This year, Aldi are starting a new animated tradition with… Ebanana Scrooge – a beggy banana who really, really wants to meet Santa. It’s giving 2020 with the banana thing, ngl.

Whilst ditching our Kevin the Carrot for Ebanana Scrooge isn’t exactly festive (nor forgivable) we’ll see if they redeem themselves when the full ad hits our screens. There’s hope for Kev’s safe return, yet. For now, here’s the 20 second trailer.

TK Maxx

It’s serving big Love Actually vibes. Six seconds in and someone is cutting onions because that little girl with the wand is everything.

School boy Laurie takes to the stage, nervous at first due to a digitally distracted (read: rude) audience who clearly have very little faith in a) this festive comeback concert and b) the power held in the toe of those teal ankle boots. Give ‘em hell kid!

A penny for more of our thoughts: Finding a matching pair of anything in TK Maxx… It really is a Christmas miracle.

Sports Direct

Jack Grealish in a white fluffy East 17 coat is the Christmas cameo we were holding out for and Sports Direct delivered. They win. Featuring a stellar cast of sporting legends from Jordan Pickford and Emma Raducanu to Jessica Ennis-Hill and golfer Andrew ‘Beef’ Johnston, the one-minute ad captures the essence of what Christmas is all about. Read: snowball fights, fistfuls of Quality Street and family members who refuse to play games with you. Our only grievance: it needed to be longer.

If the festive period wasn’t already magical enough, then a tiny present every morning in December certainly goes a long way to help- that’s right, we’re talking advent calendars, people! And whilst these 12 or 24 tiny boxes of joy are truly supposed to be a fun part of the run up to Christmas, choosing a luxury advent calendar to invest in from the endless variations now available can actually be a little overwhelming when the options feel so endless. If you’re in need of a little help deciding, you’ve come to the right place …

From beauty to alcohol, foodie treats to creative pastimes, there are tiny versions of everything good in life to help the overwhelm of December feel that tiny bit more manageable. Self-care at Christmas? Check! 

From Love Honey to luxury cocktails, Fortnum and Masons to Friends, and of course the classic Colin the Caterpillar Advent Calendar (who could forget…), keep scrolling to browse the creme de la creme of luxury calendars available in 2021. 

Psst: If glam is your thing, check out our run down of the beauty Advent Cals to add to basket ASAP here …

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If you’re sitting there twiddling your thumbs, wondering what the hell to do with yourself now you’ve binged the entirety of You Season 3, then allow the latest Zoella book club pick to fill the Love Quinn shaped void for you.

Paula Hawkins, author of best-selling global hit The Girl on the Train, is back with her latest novel A Slow Fire Burning and it is every inch the addictive and terrifying psychological thriller we’d hoped for.

Featuring nosy neighbours who just love to tamper with a crime scene, a grotty canal boat and plot twists that only a clairvoyant could see coming, it’s an iconic cocktail of murder, revenge, whodunit mystery and complex female characters. Need we say more?

Keep reading to see how the team rated this eerie and epic Hawkins masterpiece.

But first, a reminder of the blurb.

‘What is wrong with you?’

Laura has spent most of her life being judged. She’s seen as hot-tempered, troubled, a loner. Some even call her dangerous.

Miriam knows that just because Laura is witnessed leaving the scene of a horrific murder with blood on her clothes, that doesn’t mean she’s a killer. Bitter experience has taught her how easy it is to get caught in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Carla is reeling from the brutal murder of her nephew. She trusts no one: good people are capable of terrible deeds. But how far will she go to find peace?

Innocent or guilty, everyone is damaged. Some are damaged enough to kill.

Look what you started.